Cold contact solicitation

giantbourbon's Avatar
I dont mind being contacted at all. As a matter of fact it makes me feel gooood. Originally Posted by rodog44
Me too. I really like it when a girl I've seen before PMs or texts me to let me know she'll be in my area. It helps me plan ahead and manage my cash flow. And it's flattering!
Max Steed's Avatar
Me too. I really like it when a girl I've seen before PMs or texts me to let me know she'll be in my area. It helps me plan ahead and manage my cash flow. And it's flattering! Originally Posted by giantbourbon
+1
lat's Avatar
  • lat
  • 03-21-2014, 10:21 AM
Same here ladies ! I wouldn't mind especially if you are comming to the Northshore, Covington or Slidell .
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I also occassionally will "cold email" guys when i just want to send a flirty hello or a "I like your post/review" kinda email......I just like the guys to know that they are important to all of us gals here {no matter if we met or not} Originally Posted by DallasRain
Also, even if I've never made an actual appointment w/you, if we've chatted on here through threads, or PM'd back-and-forth about something else, and then you want to send me a PM, that's perfectly fine. Originally Posted by Old Horn Dog
Dallas is a case in point: I'm ALWAYS HAPPY to hear from Dallas (who isn't? ), even though we've never met & I've never scheduled an appointment w/her.

It seems desperate to me (and I don't like to be rejected,lol). I figure if a client liked me enough to see me again they will let me know. Originally Posted by 1ThickBlond
I agree it seems desperate: for one thing, every single unsolicited PM I've received on ECCIE is from someone who's EMPHATICALLY not my normal choice of provider. Usually it's from someone out of town who obviously hasn't read my descriptions of the vast majority of the girls I've reviewed before sending me a PM saying, "You need to see me!"
I think that pm's are a good thing. It's always nice to hear from sexy women.
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  • gswho
  • 03-21-2014, 08:05 PM
I really don't mind a provider letting me know she is in my town. If we have met before and had a good time together its nice that she remembers me. Also allows time to get my schedule straight if I would like to see her this go round.
Dallas generally sends an email as to when she's in the area and I appreciate that.
runkle's Avatar
ill go so far as to say that i too dont mind of a pm contact on here. IF its just to say that ill be in your area maybe we can get meet. Thats okay. If we have met before and you send me a text, email, or phone call to tell that you are coming back to the area that is okay too, so long as it is given with enough notice that things can be arranged. However it is not cool to call, text, email, or pm the day you arrive in town and say hey, im free from 5 to 7 tonight, would love to get together. Thats not cool. One it does not give me time to make arrangements, two, i will contact you for a session. You can contact me to let me know that you are in the area, but dont contact me to initiate a session the day you arrive in town. But thats just me......
holmes50's Avatar
I have no problem with being contacted by someone I've seen or not seen. Contact away lol......
From a random lady can be good can be bad. If it is lady you have on your radar it is nice to get an PM saying I'm visiting soon. If it is a lady you have no interest in seeing then you aren't excited.
Brmike1963's Avatar
It's flattering as long as there is no pressure.
Have no problem with a cold contact.
I don't mind PM's, or email to my hobby email. Wouldn't want contact via phone
PM for me is okay
gimme_that's Avatar
Pms are cool.