NCNS - Appt with Baby Dallass

Sometimes it doesn't take an unhappy client to make a provider look bad...ijs.

I'm a real man with real common sense, and thought I still don't get why hearing Pyramid's Pee Wee Herman voice (LOL) is helpful, I won't second guess what makes anyone feel safe and would respect it if someone said "I only see people I can talk to on the phone." Of course, you didn't do that. I told you I didn't have a hobby phone and asked if not talking first was a show stopper, and you said at 10:52 "OK that is fine", then "what time did you want again" like you had forgotten or something. I reminded you we agreed on 12:00, and at 11:22 you said "is that the only time" (again, not sounding like lack of conversation was the problem). I told you that was my only time available and at 12:10 (sorry, I thought it was 15 mins after, but now that I look back at the emails it was 10 mins after - but not an hour before!) you then said "I can't do it until 2 sorry my girlfriend who lives here wants to go shopping."

Again, if you were worried about not speaking with me first, why the 2:00 reschedule?

And sorry you have a thing against AA, but I am not. My avatar is Morgan Freeman, not me (lol). The references I gave you could tell you as well, which I would have guessed you'd do while screening?

I'm so done with this. I wasn't going to comment again but when I saw the flat out lies on what was said and when, I had to. If anyone wants to see the emails, PM me with your email address and I forward to you. Sorry, I won't be able to talk to you on the phone about them (LOL). Y'all can make your own judgments from there.

Best of luck to you BD, you've got a good reputation and I'm sure you'll be fine. I'm sure your next comments will be more of what you wrote above, but you and I know the real truth, so when you're not on here doing damage control please consider what really happened in the future.

However, I will say that I personally just would not feel comfortable having a date with someone that I couldn't chat with beforehand. I like to get a feel for someone by the way they articulate, & have a convo with them. It's mainly to see if they set off any red flags. It's my last phase of screening.
Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

I agree with Ginger and Baby Dallas. I won't see a provider who refuses to chat on the phone before the first visit. Never know whom might be faking the text messages. Of course talking to a lady you have never seen does not verifies it is the real deal, but it is a better sense of security.

If a provider refuses to talk on the phone, it is a deal breaker for me

You might be a black guy, judging by your avatar and I don't see black guys...I didn't feel comfortable seeing you without talking on the phone. If you we're any kind of real man or had real common sense then you should see where that would turn someone away!! What do you guys think? Would you see a provider who would only email and text!? And not talk on the phone!?! Originally Posted by BabyDallass

Glad to see your okey. Was worried about you cause someone posted alert for ft smith and I knew you were in the area this past week.

Agree with you always nice to talk with someone before a meeting. Never know what you'll be getting into with just emailing and texting.

Be safe Bady D.

Like I said HogMan, I wasn't taking anyone's side. I was merely giving my perspective on the phone/no phone issue, since it was brought up.

If it were me, there would have been clear upfront communication stating my requirement to speak on the phone prior to meeting. If you couldn't provide a number, I simply would have refused to schedule altogether.

If your claims of BD's initial email commitment, & flip-flopping later are accurate, then your lack of a phone is really not a valid excuse for her not making the date.

Jmo. Don't shoot the messenger.

P.S. Slingerland's suggestion of using Google Voice might be a good hobby phone solution for you. You can delete the app off your phone when you're not using it, and reinstall it later with the same GV number.

Google voice is very helpful. I use it when conducting non-hobby related business. Plus you can READ the voicemails people leave you and the texts come straight to your inbox.

The REAL truth is...you PMed 3 whole weeks ago asking if I would be in NWA for a Wednesday appointment, I told you I couldn't make it....Come on dude 3 weeks ago and a couple PM's in between..why didn't you just tell me in any of those PM's that you could only email and PM? We would have saved a lot of each others time...I would have not booked a date with you if I knew that up front! So you tell me that morning of the date that you have no phone? Well, I have the right to not see you, so that's what I chose to do.

I emailed and sent you a PM explaining why I didn't want to see you. You never wrote me back....You wrote me one email when I told you about a possible reschedule at 2:00, which the only way I still would have seen you was IF I got to talk to you on the phone and I was going to tell you that. But instead you sent me a rude email jumping all over me saying how unacceptable that was and how I shouldn't have gave you the run around...I feel the exact same way when it came to you. If you would have told me the first round of PMs that you can't talk to me on the phone, then all commutation would have been cut off right there! That way we don't end up here with miscommunication through emails and PMs. When it comes to my business I handle things better by talking on the phone or in person.

Anyways it's a pretty day and I got people and places to see! Y'all have a good one and take care!

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I am looking at every angle and when BD expressed upfront that she needed to talk to you ,,, you was pressuring her to change her metod of operation. Talking her down by expressing how well approved references were acceptable in your eyes. Debating looks pushy as if you are trying to change her opinion. Escorts don't want to be in a position to say "NO".
persistent persuaded argument gets you an appointment, ,,, think not.

You might be a black guy, judging by your avatar and I don't see black guys...I didn't feel comfortable seeing you without talking on the phone.

So you're inferring you can tell someone's race by how they sound on the phone. I'm black, but you would probably assume I'm white if you heard me on the phone. Assuming ALL black people act and talk a certain way is racist no matter how you look at it. I thought it was 2014, not 1954.

::This thread isn't about Racism, ,, the lady isn't physically attracted to AA men. Forcing a service would be unjustified.

Ok so now im a racist? That is so wrong. Your right you cant always tell over the phone...I also said he could of been a woman, guess im sexist too?

I all ways need to talk first and BD is right in my opinion.

For the life of me, I figure out why some guys and gals get so bent out of shape over a NS or even a NCNS. Sometimes its a good thing it did not work out.

One would thinck most fucktards would be used to rejection, I know I am.