Texting or Calling?

usually pm's here, then texts. i do like a phone call too, for one it generally increases my interest and i think it gives me some clue to her attitude. or at least i imagine it does.
but no long calls, that'd be like being married.

usually pm's here, then texts. i do like a phone call too, for one it generally increases my interest and i think it gives me some clue to her attitude. or at least i imagine it does.
but no long calls, that'd be like being married. Originally Posted by notequiteatroll

Married people talk?

Married people talk? Originally Posted by MaryBeth

when you don't want to

Mating call preferred.

Hahahaha.

I agree with you, seems you have gotten the hang of things over the years my babe.

As for me I prefer if we haven't met that the gentleman send me a Pm with your references that way everything is here if the date were to go wrong, ect. Also if the client wants a date on short notice I ask that the client please send me a quick text and I will reply shortly.

Once I have the date set and they are at my incall, I usually them let them call me for the room number that way it's not sent thru text and saved. Not always, most of the time, sometimes if I am not all the way comfortable I do have them call me on their way so I can not be so nervous. Makes things much more enjoyable for both parties.

I do not like using email so I only use ECCIE, P411 & TER !

If the gentleman and I already have had the pleasure of meeting then they shall feel free to call or text anytime as I am a free spirit, this is what works best for me.



Miss Dreams

I initially text and then once contact is first made, ask permission and if the provider is available for a call. Originally Posted by ncc72032

Text due to the fact I despise talking on the phone. And when a hooker gives you her life story or details on some petty fictional hooker board drama that is beyond annoying. I had one ask me to call her and I swear by the end of the call I was contemplating adding water boarding to the activities since she was that annoying.

Lol.

Private Message or Texting is best, just no Sexting please and get straight to the business! Talking is talking, I like to SEE it all... hear the rest later!

Miss Dreams!

I prefer to send the lady my screening information first via whatever website she may use for screening. Then I will call her before she looks at it to let her know I sent it and that I am interested in a meeting. I call so quickly for the following reasons:

1. To make sure she knows that I sent the info because some ladies don't check all the websites they advertise on that often.
2. I also call because after telling her that I would like to meet and that I have already sent my screening information I inform them that I am a black gentleman and ask if that will be a problem.
3. I have seen a lot of NBA ladies that have told me they would normally not have seen me if they knew I was a black gentleman up front. However, since I came across as a gentleman on the phone (guess I don't sound black on the phone ) they will screen me and decide to see me. Following this routine has led to only 1 lady that I wanted to visit not being willing to see me because I was a black gentleman.
4. Once all that is done I am a text guy for the rest of the time.

Calling has also saved me from what could have been a couple of bad experiences i.e. guys answering the phone/in the background and some ladies just being so unprofessional on the phone that I decided I didn't want to visit with them.

Texting is always easier.....especially when your holding multiples conversation at once...trying to plan and get things worked out.

telepathy ok?