Meet And Greets, Suspected of Being LE

I like a meet and greet to relieve some of the tension of the first encounter. At the same time my time is valuable and I understand a provider's time is also valuable. If you want to meet in public for lunch or drinks, pay her for her time. An initial investment for a meet and greet can insure that you get more for your money during a regular session. Just my opinion and probably the reason I don't have a long list of providers I see.

I like a meet and greet to relieve some of the tension of the first encounter. At the same time my time is valuable and I understand a provider's time is also valuable. If you want to meet in public for lunch or drinks, pay her for her time. An initial investment for a meet and greet can insure that you get more for your money during a regular session. Just my opinion and probably the reason I don't have a long list of providers I see. Originally Posted by Goodoldtime

I have done that before. I call them 'dinner dates.' Or, sometimes we just have a drink or two before going back BCD to play. The clock is running, however...and it's mutually understood.

Dinner dates are fine. I offer lunch/dinner/drink dates. They are $400 for 4-5 hours (leaves a little run-over time). Otherwise you can book a room and fuck me silly like the rest of the guys wearing their big boy pants.

I recently attended a M&G in Dallas, and was extremely impressed with how it was handled. I received an invitation from two local providers, but was still subject to verification at the registration location, and then again at the entrance to the building, and also at the door of the event. Texas has always been within the top 5 states for prostitution arrests, so I was intent on getting as much information about how this event was organized and conducted. Impressive level of technology and security and double checking and triple checking using photos, key phrases and passwords to maintain the guest list of a select few participants; only 200 in attendance. I walked away with a provider on my arm and a phone full of contacts and face pics for future trips. Music, food, games and cash bar cost me a total of $800 for 4 hours of heaven. IMHO it can be done here. Arkansas does not have an ideal location for this to happen, but it is possible.

I recently attended a M&G in Dallas, and was extremely impressed with how it was handled. I received an invitation from two local providers, but was still subject to verification at the registration location, and then again at the entrance to the building, and also at the door of the event. Texas has always been within the top 5 states for prostitution arrests, so I was intent on getting as much information about how this event was organized and conducted. Impressive level of technology and security and double checking and triple checking using photos, key phrases and passwords to maintain the guest list of a select few participants; only 200 in attendance. I walked away with a provider on my arm and a phone full of contacts and face pics for future trips. Music, food, games and cash bar cost me a total of $800 for 4 hours of heaven. IMHO it can be done here. Arkansas does not have an ideal location for this to happen, but it is possible. Originally Posted by giteneny

Sounds fun! I'd be interested!

I would think 30-40 max would be ideal for a local before expanding. It's not that hard to do but I wouldn't envy anyone putting one together.

I would think 30-40 max would be ideal for a local before expanding. It's not that hard to do but I wouldn't envy anyone putting one together. Originally Posted by Hogfan69

And one rule stick to no matter what. No hooker shall openly go about her chosen trade at any M&G since that was the downfall of one of the best ones in Houston eons ago. It is strictly social. If you see someone you like get contact information and set a date later. NOT AT THE M&G!!

Let them learn. Have the skipper organize it and have CDB work the security...what could possibly go wrong?

And one rule stick to no matter what. No hooker shall openly go about her chosen trade at any M&G since that was the downfall of one of the best ones in Houston eons ago. It is strictly social. If you see someone you like get contact information and set a date later. NOT AT THE M&G!! Originally Posted by bladtinzu

Couldn't agree more with Blad has posted.

I have been involved in the behind the scenes work of setting up & have attended several M&G's in the Indianapolis area, NOLA and here on the MS Coast.

They can be a bit of work to set up, with the screening, finding & securing a suitable location, and security.

But, they are also quite enjoyable when everyone understands and complies with the rules/guidelines necessary to ensure everyone's safety & security.

Be Careful & Enjoy!

Biomed1

Let them learn. Have the skipper organize it and have CDB work the security...what could possibly go wrong? Originally Posted by pyramider

It end up looking like the mad dash from the cops that Apalachin meeting in 1957 in Upset New York. I'll pass

Couldn't agree more with Blad has posted.

I have been involved in the behind the scenes work of setting up & have attended several M&G's in the Indianapolis area, NOLA and here on the MS Coast.

They can be a bit of work to set up, with the screening, finding & securing a suitable location, and security.

But, they are also quite enjoyable when everyone understands and complies with the rules/guidelines necessary to ensure everyone's safety & security.

Be Careful & Enjoy!

Biomed1 Originally Posted by biomed1

Never thought of the behind the scene stuff. But going to one and a hooker is plying her trade hot and heavy going off into some broom closet for quickies is a sign this could get bad rather quickly. And running in slick sole Italian shoes is rather.. Well it fucking sucks.

I was invited to a few bondage/fetish M&G including rope tying events. I never went though. Those fetish guys can get weird. And I swear if someone touches me feet I'm going to flip

Hell no! No M and Gs for me. One on one I'm not gonna pay a lady to eat dinner with me (unless I'm the dinner) and I sure as hell am not interested in a large group get together.

I wouldn't be caught dead in a public meet & greet.
A work acquaintance could appear or a relative and the discretion is lost.

Yes M&G can be fun.
yet a pain in the ass.

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But I found best is have a mod ready to lock it as soon as you post it. My luck the mod got tied up in a shit storm in another area.

So another time I had a provider put in a ad to PM me. Cool one would think as no reply's in provider ads. But many guys do not read instructions well. Yup her phone got so many calls and text she had to turn her phone off after bitching about to me and took the day off. So I find a Admin to kill the ad for her. So then, now I was in hot water with the local Upset NY female mod. err ops ahhh sorry

best way it seems, small and all over PM or email by invite. For 15 or 30. no more than 40.

for a bout 12 have a provider just post a few hours before. Having drinks at where ever at what ever time. Only the first few times I had or the provider put up with the bitching wah wah wah to short of notice I want to go to one and blah blah blah.

As I driven gals to a few but did not go in as not invited. I bring this up as for where latter. Seemed rented room back room at a bar or party house. some even at a private home.

So now I was invited to one and I could bring two of the providers I have driven for in the past. So being use to the private room at a bar or party house, they dressed to kill. I will tell you so did other providers. location location location. 8 provider dressed to kill and about 40 guys at the bar area of a family restaurant with kids running around, well did not work out so well.

best one I have been at in Upset NY was pulled off by a provider at a bar with a dance floor and band. Providers where told do not dress to kill. But a few folks did have the problem of someone they knew not in this game at the bar..

and remember

And one rule stick to no matter what. No hooker shall openly go about her chosen trade at any M&G since that was the downfall of one of the best ones in Houston eons ago. It is strictly social. If you see someone you like get contact information and set a date later. NOT AT THE M&G!! Originally Posted by bladtinzu

One M&G I was part of the set up(ok most of). The guy and gal that went for it in the back of a SUV in the parking lot was not cool. Some where upset with that mod and gal, and the guy that put her on the mods lap in a seemly pay off way.

So this seems new on the most part in this area.
Go small by invite(pm or email), and pick where, when and who all with care.
Only post after its done if you are ok with the drama Blah blah blah why was I not invited.

there are still some that I find out about before hand. But as I was not invited by PM I do not go and I could care less.

Hell no! No M and Gs for me. One on one I'm not gonna pay a lady to eat dinner with me (unless I'm the dinner) and I sure as hell am not interested in a large group get together. Originally Posted by watchoutthegameisrigged

Good to know