just wonderin

I wasn't referring to my mindset.i gave freely ,I was talking about the mindset of a person,who would let $ cost em $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$... ..not a very good business decision...
ps...what the HELL is love?????

This provider I see has eyes as pretty as a Jersey cow. lol
Im a sucker for a petite black haired girl. But hey it makes me happy and that is a good thing.

I wasn't referring to my mindset.i gave freely ,I was talking about the mindset of a person,who would let $ cost em $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$... ..not a very good business decision...
ps...what the HELL is love????? Originally Posted by TX Guy

Answer to the first question... A shortsighted idiot.

Answer to the second question... I think it's chocolate.

I wasn't referring to my mindset.i gave freely ,I was talking about the mindset of a person,who would let $ cost em $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$... ..not a very good business decision...
ps...what the HELL is love????? Originally Posted by TX Guy

I misinterpreted the intent of the message.

The kind of mindset that believes that today's problems are bigger than tomorrow's without understanding that even with minimal changes tomorrow's problems can be significantly diminished.

Many people just live from one crisis to the next crisis without considering that their own excesses most likely cause the crisis in the first place.

Simple economics: "If your output exceeds your income, then your up keep will be your down fall"

GD is correct that, anyone can help themselves out of a situation.

Chocolate!! Same endorphine rush, less headaches!


HAIL!!

I haven't been with a single one yet that hasn't asked for money. It's either before or after the session. Maybe one day, I'll have one that will say this ones on the house.

I have got texts asking for money for lawyers, car problems...just ignore.

Bottom line..Some probably will get alittle butt hurt but don't come to a hooker site looking for love.

I still need you, Das. I can't put a condom on a Hershey's bar.

I still need you, Das. I can't put a condom on a Hershey's bar. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Truth!

It's hard enough to get it on my Mike & Ike

I had one tell me one time you loan me $150 ill give you back $175 plus ill do you!!! Bahaha!!!!

I got into a similar situation with a provider but knowing that I have been alive longer than I am going to be alive and that my child is taken care of and my bank account has a lot of zeros behind the first digit, I have no problem helping people out because I am not looking for the money back. It will only be more that the government will tax when I die. I enjoy making other people happy, if they are not trying to run a game on me. After saying all that, I must say that I don’t lend money or go into business with family or friends because it only ruins friendships and breakup families. Back to the provider, I helped her out a little just because and would have helped her out a lot more if she had asked but she started running with another provider and changed.
I must make an observation about the exchange between Ginger and UC. I have to agree with both of them. As Ginger said, I believe and I am not provider, a provider can 95% percent of the time take care of their own needs if they take care of business. As UC said that is not 100% of the case. Because Ginger has been able to not ask for anything in the past has no relevance to her future. I know that financially I am in great shape right now but there is no guarantee that I won’t be on the street with a tin cup next year and it may be completely beyond my control. If the universe decides it is your time to get it, you are going to get it.

No, I haven't, not in 6 years of providing. One would think if it was going to happen, it would've happened by now.

I take great pride in my independence and my ability to solve my own problems. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

I got into a similar situation with a provider but knowing that I have been alive longer than I am going to be alive and that my child is taken care of and my bank account has a lot of zeros behind the first digit, I have no problem helping people out because I am not looking for the money back. It will only be more that the government will tax when I die. I enjoy making other people happy, if they are not trying to run a game on me. After saying all that, I must say that I don’t lend money or go into business with family or friends because it only ruins friendships and breakup families. Back to the provider, I helped her out a little just because and would have helped her out a lot more if she had asked but she started running with another provider and changed.
I must make an observation about the exchange between Ginger and UC. I have to agree with both of them. As Ginger said, I believe and I am not provider, a provider can 95% percent of the time take care of their own needs if they take care of business. As UC said that is not 100% of the case. Because Ginger has been able to not ask for anything in the past has no relevance to her future. I know that financially I am in great shape right now but there is no guarantee that I won’t be on the street with a tin cup next year and it may be completely beyond my control. If the universe decides it is your time to get it, you are going to get it. Originally Posted by theotherguy1

Totally agree. In fact, thinking that if it was going to happen, it would have by now is incorrect. The longer you go without having to ask, the greater the chances are you'll have to at some point. And this business is not always kind to those ladies of an advanced age. You can't do this forever... and there's no 401k for hookers.

I never asked for money, people just give it to me. I once made $200 just for talking to a guy at a bar in Vegas. Granted I did mention I'm a military wife and my fiance was in Afghanistan but whatever...

There's no such thing as planning for the future. Anything can happen at any given time. You can be top Queen of the Whores one day and washed up hag of the wannbes the next. That savings account will only last so long.

I'm planning other things in life to where I don't have to depend on horny men (unless he put a ring on it).

Every hooker, regardless of age, needs an exit strategy – a business plan outside of this business. To assume that I don't have one in place would be incorrect.

Life does throw curveballs… & I very well may find myself in a situation someday where I need to ask someone for help. But I absolutely guarantee that I wouldn't ask a hobbyist. The provider/hobbyist relationship is very simple... Tit for tat, fucks for bucks, nothing more.

Occasionally, true friendships occur in the hobby. You will know it is a true friendship when she doesn't ask you for anything. But typically, the friendship is more one-sided and beneficial to the other party. That's when we see threads like this.

Friendships mean nothing really, but then again I trust no one. Take it how you will

Occasionally, true friendships occur in the hobby. You will know it is a true friendship when she doesn't ask you for anything. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

We must be friends. You never asked for anything except to come fuck you. Every now and then you send me random pictures of your kitty, friends with benefits.