A moral dilemma: Bros before hoes

Oh, and FYI: I am 100% sure that I went to high school with one of our regular female contributors on this board, but I'm not ever planning to contact her directly about it.
It's been about 35 years since we've seen each other and she now lives a couple of states north-ish of me. Any direct contact would probably be quite awkward. Unless she comes down for a reunion, we probably won't see each other again, but if we do, I will certainly not bring it up.

FoulRon, the OP could also thanck his friend for teaching his wife for those things she does with her tongue and making her ass so accepting ...

I don't think I would open this particular Pandora's box!

OP are you married?

I'm sure you've seen plenty of providers that have an SO before.

Go see her ... what could possibly go wrong? Originally Posted by pyramider

Lay the pipe ... ijs. Originally Posted by pyramider

Bang her already!
Originally Posted by Worldtravler

If you say something and you are wrong....Then you are a moron!! If you say something and you are right....Then you are a moron!!

You do the math!!

I like the double standard of how some ladies post what they wouldn't or wouldn't do. If your a real friend you will expose her ass.......but if your a hobbyist that's looked down upon. So if you love hoes and the whore culture you won't say shit.......if your friendship means anything to you....let him know. I got outed to my real life girlfriend by a providers screener........ultimately although what that screener did was wrong and unprofessional.......it was ultimately my fault. I couldn't fault her for letting an old friend know what it was........

I'm sure if a provider saw the husband or boyfriend of her close friend as a client she would expose it too. But women always will do that. Guy code says that we don't do or say anything. But how would that make you feel as a man.....

And shame on you if you actually fuck her............if she's that good she could easily win him over through sexual apologies.........then they will ostracize you. Yeah maybe you should just fuck her first to cover your basis.......lol

If you say something and you are wrong....Then you are a moron!! If you say something and you are right....Then you are a moron!!

You do the math!! Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

Either way you are a moron, so you might as well get your nut and be a satisfied moron.

So, he found the girl while searching for a piece to enjoy!hmm. She's a confirmed working girl and your not her pimp, brother, husband,priest, lein holder! Wondering if the dilemma is really about what kind of man you are? Can you enjoy something and just let it go(like a guy should with every professional encounter)? You know this wouldn't be the first time a guy fucks a working girl that has a SO and then goes about his damned business! How many girls here have an SO! Whether they start here with one, find one (or 10 dummies)while working, or leave with one( and 99% of the time come back alone. Just like normal life) just to be back in six months.

You want to enjoy the Taint or Marry/Date the Lady! Are you a priest/pastor/ police/ moral authority in training!!

PS can you help me out and send me her info she must be pretty good!

The husband probably already knows, he probably hooked up with her on this site.

If she is as active, popular, and well reviewed as you say she is, I think it would be fairly difficult for her to hide her business from a new husband. If it is her; and your buddy already knows of her career, it’s fairly obvious that he doesn’t have a problem with other guys fucking his new wife. Alternative relationships happen... and last... believe it... it happens.

If he’s okay with other guys fucking his wife... even if they would both prefer to keep her work a secret, it wouldn’t be the End of the World if a buddy finds out... especially a buddy who happens to already enjoy the hobby! So What? You would all be sharing a secret that would most likely remain secure amongst the three of you... how could any of the three of you really be that upset?

I just don’t think it’s too far fetched for the buddy husband to already know. I also seriously doubt that a well known working girl would risk marrying a guy without a clue and try to keep her time consuming career a secret. Times are tough... she has a well paying job... many other married couples have it far worse!

Definitely an interesting situation! Why don't you just ask your buddy how he feels about prostitution, without mentioning any of your suspicions? If I were you... the shear curiosity would prevent me from ignoring and trying to forget about it. I’d have to know... afterall, it is just a hobby!

Also... one more thing... if the scenario I laid out is true... and I thought she was hot... I’d have no problem nailing her!

the hubbie probably knows about it.. the odds that he doesn't know are slim to none. I mean a provider who has lots of reviews on here the hubbie would have to know something is up by now.

If you think your friend should know...

Contact him, "Hey, some 'escort' is using pics of your wife for her ads. You two may want to contact the web site to get the pics taken down. Here is the address:..."

Then, wait for the "Wanna fuck my wife?" message if he knew or the "I had no idea..." message if he didn't know.

Did you see her? Post up the link so we can check her out.

kerplunk13


Ask the provider if she has a problem sending you a selfie that shows her face before you make an appointment. If she won't do that you could ask for a meeting for coffee and do some recon work. Wouldn't that tell you if it is her?
Then, since you have satisfied your curiosity, you can make up your mind if it's "doable" and if it is you friends SO, if it's any of your business. If it is I would just walk on by and never say a word, it it isn't I would have a couple of hours free if you like what you see.
Either way, stay out of other's business like you would want them to stay out of yours. Unless you want to lose a friend and possibly much more as I am sure their lives, reputation, and finances are more important to them than your friendship.
Where is that popcorn ?

Mixed feedback here. Some are good, some don't make sense, some are just stupid and some are just childish banter. Appreciate them all nonetheless. A few things though that I need to clarify here:
1. I've met the wife in person so I know her by real name and face and so does she with me. She is not attractive to me but thus have a killer body.
2. If she is the provider, she is an agency girl and there is no way for me to communicate directly with her without going through the pimp first. I can only get in touch with her after I book an appointment, on the day of the appointment. I think that increases her chances of hiding it successfully to her husband.
3. If I ever set an appointment with her, it's to talk. I do not intend to bang her if she turns out to be the wife even if her husband(my friend) knows she is a provider. There is a line I do not cross and this is one of them.
4. I've come to my senses that setting up an appointment exposes me as well if it turns out to be her. I'm single right now but we all know that this lifestyle carries a stigma regardless of your marital status. I will need to find a different way to confirm my suspicion or just walk away.