Waiting for Women to Get Back with You.

  • EZ.
  • 10-07-2014, 08:31 AM
Don't feel bad OldLRRP. You are at the beginning of a fun, yet complicated game. It does not need to be complicated or frustrating even though it may seems so at times.
Originally Posted by Von Spieler
Beginning? I was here during the ASPD days. It was easy then. I knew most of the women and had their cell phone numbers. There was always an influx of new talent but was able to meet them at the Happy Hours. If they didn't know me, I would ask who are you friends with?
Since my return, I dealing with so many flakes and bat shit crazies. I just noticed an email, in my spam filter, she has 50 questions. I just want some pussy, not a job ...I'm retired.
  • EZ.
  • 10-07-2014, 08:34 AM
Regulars usually have first call. The girls like steady income. I have several ladies that I have dated for 5+ years. Originally Posted by Bestman200600
That's cool but I'm at the buffet. I haven't met anyone that I want to see over and over.
daty/o's Avatar
I completely understand his frustration and have commented several times that, to them, it must really be a "hobby". I have to believe that this delayed response issue is a combination of poor communication skills and selective booking.
Hercules's Avatar
Wait 'til after TGiving. They'll reply before you can even hit the send button.
gladius82's Avatar
I have had several providers not respond to PM's.....Some were sent several months ago. I usually wait and after 2 weeks, move on.
It is frustrating especially when the providers says to send a PM, but it isn't worth worrying over.
Only 4? I hit up ten or fifteen and am lucky if one gets back to me by the next day, some take a week. Originally Posted by catbanger

+1

It must be very exceptional for providers to be able to pick and choose from the hundreds of guys who contact them for an appointment on a daily basis, the cash they are making must also be fantastic. Why do we see the threads by providers of how she is struggling or needs some kind of financial help for an unexpected expense? Why do they even place ads they are available? Especially if they do not get back to you for a few days, if at all.
  • !VI!
  • 10-07-2014, 10:00 AM
i mean when you show your ass in a lot of things you write

most people try to avoid dealing with at assuming it may carry over into your real life personality

but then again keyboard warriors tend to .... not be as brave after the barrier of the internet is gone
  • !VI!
  • 10-07-2014, 10:03 AM
+1

It must be very exceptional for providers to be able to pick and choose from the hundreds of guys who contact them each day, for an appointment, the cash they are making must also be fantastic. Why do the place ads they are available? Especially if they do not get back to you for a few days, if at all. Originally Posted by davidfree986
its not always about the money, sometimes it's all about who is contacting

hell most providers are not high volume because the vagina can take a beating but needs to recover to stay tight
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... It does not need to be complicated or frustrating even though it may seems so at times.

Just remember this.

The women on here hold the power of the pussy, but the men on here hold the power of the purse. Without us to spend our hard earned money on, they do not flourish. It's our reviews, attention, and most of all, our money that keep them going and you will learn which ones at certain times of the month will realize that they need us, or better yet, our money. Show them respect and attention and they will return.

Be safe, play safe, and have fun Originally Posted by Von Spieler
^^^^^^^^^^THIS, THIS, AND ONCE AGAIN THIS!!!!!
we see who we want.
they see who they want.
sometimes the wants hook up, sometimes they dont.
it's a fact. accept it, understand it, learn it, adapt to it.

... I have to believe that this delayed response issue is a combination of poor communication skills and selective booking. Originally Posted by daty/o
that's my assumption. either the women are not checking their inboxes [email, pm, vm, etc] or they are very occupied and dont need to check.

find out their best communication media and use that. then use the others.

I sent out 4 PMs on Thursday and Friday and got my first response back on Sunday. I was requesting Friday or Saturday. Everyone of these said available Saturday and Sunday on their pages.
I was going down my TDL. I have like ten women on that list. What do you recommend? Send PMs to the entire list and take the first one that responds? Originally Posted by OldLRRP
if i really Really REALLY want some delites [which is rare since i've learned this sub-culture is not the end-all-be-all of life], i would send a note to those i wanted to consult with - well in advance of when i wanted to see them.
if they get back to me, fine.
if they dont get back to me, fine.

if one gets back to me and everything lines up, i schedule with her.
if anyone gets back to me after that, i tell them "thanks, but my plans have changed." no further explanation needed.
DO NOT tell them you scheduled w/ another woman.
unless of course you want a threesome w/ them :^)

OldLRRP, i feel your pain. my suggestion is to feel grateful that a) you woke up this morning, b) you have basic necessities of life, c) no military or thugs are killing folks in your neighborhood cos your neighbors are not toeing some fucked-up notion of life.

and, kinda most importantly, there is a huge selection of women in the dallas area who will [hopefully] let you cum over to their place for delites.

breathe in, breathe out....
this too shall pass.
peace, brother.
Originally posted by OldLRRP - Beginning? I was here during the ASPD days.
Oops. My bad. I didn't recognize you from your avatar. You usually don't have such a cute smile. back on ASPD your youthful look and smile kept us all in line.

Use the damn phone. Call dem bitches. An call out the ones with so much bidness dey can't get back to you. Anybody dis economy gots mo bidness than dey can handle dey can feel free to send it my way. Sheeit. Ho bidness can't be so damn damn good for a few skinny girls there's not 400 others out there needin to work.

And gawdam I know that delites fella be related to Charles Dickens.
verygood69's Avatar
I feel your need!!! Hell I have text several today and sent pms and no luck at all.
Roger.Smith's Avatar
Use the damn phone. Call dem bitches. An call out the ones with so much bidness dey can't get back to you. Anybody dis economy gots mo bidness than dey can handle dey can feel free to send it my way. Sheeit. Ho bidness can't be so damn damn good for a few skinny girls there's not 400 others out there needin to work.

And gawdam I know that delites fella be related to Charles Dickens. Originally Posted by phildo
+1

Pickup the phone and make a call. You know whether or not you can get a session right away. Being passive is a sure way to make sure you're constantly frustrated.

Guys talk so tough online, but when it's time to talk to a woman they get scared.
It probably has everything to do with whom you are reaching out to.
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It probably has everything to do with whom you are reaching out to. Originally Posted by Kendall4U
Probably so, however I did send you a text 😞