Ladies regarding P411

Hopefully those providers will be smart enough to link eccie reviews with links to the activities they do......or just update the faq part of their website........ Originally Posted by gimme_that

Hi sugar!

Reviews should not be indicative of what a lady enjoys. Just what she enjoyed with that particular client. You should always go into a situation with a YMMV attitude unless you've sparked some chemistry before the date.

Tiffani
I would rather have an idea of what I can expect before I even begin setting up an appointment. I think most don't want to discuss their menu on the phone and I won't push or ask her. I have an idea that I would like to meet a woman for a certain experiance and the only way I know she would "enjoy" that is if she has mentioned it.

Tiffani
I would rather have an idea of what I can expect before I even begin setting up an appointment. I think most don't want to discuss their menu on the phone and I won't push or ask her. I have an idea that I would like to meet a woman for a certain experiance and the only way I know she would "enjoy" that is if she has mentioned it. Originally Posted by tucson

Tucson, as a respected man among very reputable ladies, no one should have any qualms about asking you what your interests are, and fulfilling them. It's not your job to ask me 'what I do'. You tell me what you like, and either you and I will have a good time, or we aren't a good fit.

If a gentleman is meeting women who do not know how to screen, or are constantly worried about you being the police to where they can't even discuss mutual interests, I would be concerned about the quality of the time I'd have with her anyway.

When I grow up I want to be as wise as Tiffani. M'Lady, it is always enjoyable to read your posts.

I can count on Tiffani to give a thoughtful answer.

I always treat each appointment as YMMV, even if I've seen the lady a dozen times before. There is always the possibility that this time she's just not up to previous escapades for various reasons. Hell, sometimes I'm not up to my last level of performance or desires.

I have a few things that I have never done and want to try at least one time. I finally did the water sports session and found it to be a hot turn on. Some other things that I want to try but a bunch of the P411 Things I enjoy were blank. That part of P411 allowed me to quickly find those ladies that would go along with my kink.

I definitely won't book an appointment unless I confirm my favorite activities are a go. If she needs to waste time and fully screen first for her to tell me that no kissing, no daty, and CBJ only is what she offers more power to her. Mdmv (my donation may vary) to counter her ymmv.

I've had ladies go so far as to say they will only discuss when they arrive. I just let them know that if what they offer doesn't correspond to what I'm looking for Ill kindly ask her to leave and I will not pay any cancellation rate for her time. Just in my experiences....usually if a lady is uncomfortable discussing it she merely just tolerates it.....but doesn't like it. I don't need or want to settle.....neither should she.

Duplicate

I spent a couple of hours looking at providers show cases and half of them say they will not discuss menu items on the phone. I full well understand that but why not mention the things she "enjoys" in her showcase? If that is her attitude then I will search out the ones that list the things they will allow.

I suggest you read her reviews and ask if needed about extras not listed

Annika looking at your reviews gives me no idea of your likes. Are you into any kink. Videos or pictures. I am sure you would not be thrilled if I were to ask a bunch of questions in my request for a date with you. Your reviews state you are fantastic with BBBJ but does not mention if you are GFE or into any anal play. Your reviews are exactly what I have been concerned by. Nothing in your reviews, P411 or adds indicate what I can expect when we get together. I would guess with your info on P411 we would have a great time but what I don't know would keep me from seeing you.

I have noticed that when I search for specific things come providers with no public details come up, so I assume it is possible to hide it but have it come up in search. Or there is a flaw in the search.....

A lot of the terminology may be funny, but is a bit crass, so I can understand a provider trying to create a classy vibe not wanting her description to end with BBBJ or gagging or somesuch.

Recent info from Gina at 411 seems to indicate that info will be much less available due to changes in Canadian law.

Annika looking at your reviews gives me no idea of your likes. Are you into any kink. Videos or pictures. I am sure you would not be thrilled if I were to ask a bunch of questions in my request for a date with you. Your reviews state you are fantastic with BBBJ but does not mention if you are GFE or into any anal play. Your reviews are exactly what I have been concerned by. Nothing in your reviews, P411 or adds indicate what I can expect when we get together. I would guess with your info on P411 we would have a great time but what I don't know would keep me from seeing you. Originally Posted by tucson

I do get your point!

However
When in doubt ask