A bucket list item? Perhaps. Having sex in the dark with someone I've not met or seen, and only know by reputation and reviews..... and then waking up with that person .... sort of interesting.
Originally Posted by Zhivago52
Sounds like a fun time
I kind of get off on the anonymity of this lifestyle, but that's taking it to the next level!
Most of my appointments are overnights, so for me it goes with the territory that some of those overnights are with men I've never met before. Generally I put it forth as a dinner date with the intention of extending overnight - that way, if we *don't* happen to hit it off (I can count on a couple of fingers the times where that's happened, lol) then we can part with no hard feelings. Of course, I'm generally quite open with conversation up to our tryst, so we both have a pretty good idea of who we're meeting and how much we'll enjoy them before we meet face to face.
Only once have I ever met someone sight unseen for a week's escape... I was so nervous about it! The gentleman was highly recommended to me by one of my friends overseas whom he visited regularly, and she told me not to worry about him. I corresponded with him for several weeks, and he was more than charming, so I put my apprehension aside and flew out to meet him. I thoroughly enjoyed every minute of it - at first there was the wonderful thrill of getting to explore someone new, but by the end of the week I felt like I'd known him forever! Definitely one of the high points in my time in this lifestyle,
~Mme X~