Scams, ripoffs and alerts...

If a guy fronts cash and doesn't receive what he expected, that's not a scam, ripoff or alert. It's ignorance by the hobbyist. I don't blame the provider for this behavior. Originally Posted by CaptainKaos

I'm gonna disagree with you on this one. It is still a ripoff or a scam, even if the guy was a sucker.

But there's a part of me that thinks some of the guys get duped because they think they're getting a better deal themselves by doing a gal a favor. That's why I have a hard time feeling sorry for guys who get suckered. If both parties treat this for what it is and not what they hope it could be, we would have less con games. Originally Posted by CaptainKaos

I do agree with this. There's a saying "You can't cheat an honest man." Most scams work because someone thinks they are going to get a great deal or get ahead in some unearned way.

And no matter how you work it out, don't hold it over their heads that you helped them. If you keep reminding them, they might stop seeing you as a client or friend. If they scam you, they were never a friend in the first place. Originally Posted by skbinks

we are all adults, we all know we make choices and those choices open/close the door to other choices and so on.
If I'm not getting something out of it from someone on here, then I'm not doing it.
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Isnt that why guys are here? we have people we have to take care of in our lives, we are here for a straight up exchange of cash for services.

This isnt pretty woman and hookers don't care about you
or has someone gotten a free bang because he helped a hooker out? and I just didnt hear about it?

Oh pfftt. Does it matter if it's a rip off a scam or an alert?? I think it should all be linked to the hookers profile. And no, I see absolutely NO reason a bitch should be asking for help with hotel rooms, money for vanilla cards, gas or food for their 7 kids they really don't have. That's why them hookers are selling dat ass to pay for these things.

I haven't hardly done 10 calls this past year, but I have quite a savings built up, And, I happen to be a responsible adult with children. I haven't always had my shit together but nobody ever knew it when I didn't. And, I was ACTUALLY quite needy then. But, I still didn't ask. When I first started, I was going to the library to make email accounts! But, I still didn't ask for money and nobody knew of my financial and life problems. IN FACT, My sons would be fuckin laughing at me if they heard me asking another adult for gas money or bill money. Not to mention, it is just embarrassing as fuck to me, as a woman!!

Health insurance is cheap as hell. And a necessity. So, no, that is also not an excuse. I have health insurance, I am baffled as to why grown-ass women would rather buy shoes or drugs than pay for health insurance. Fucking dumbasses.

And, FRIENDS?? Fuck a friend! Seriously, there are no excuses for not being able to get off your asses needy hookers! It's not anyone else's problem to take care of another adult. They have retirement homes for that...And most of them elderly people live in assisted living! Again, no fuckin excuse. And, hey guys! ..just because you got cozy with a hooker twice, doesn't make her your close friend and that certainly doesn't obligate you to hand that hooker extra money up front whenever she boohoo's every typical lame excuse in the fairyland where stu[id hookers exist. Thats not good game dummys. That's a waste of a woman and your capabilities to run a legitimate business. I don't go through drive thrus a few times and then decie ask them for rent and gas money.

And if I am sick, which I have been for nearly 4 months, I am not sittin around asking every dick and john I've seen for help with my meds and bills. I am responsible enough to have already thought that far ahead. Duh

So I absolutely do not feel sorry for a needy lazy hoe. Bp is 24/7. Ladies need to get health insurance, anybody can! Ladies to need to figure out how to feed their own kids and tell their bf's to help out with their bills. Common sense really.

Mah bad on the typos

Oh pfftt. Originally Posted by Gemma34

Feel better now, Gemma?

And, FRIENDS?? Fuck a friend! Originally Posted by Gemma34

Can we be friends? :sneaktongue:

They have retirement homes for that...And most of them elderly people live in assisted living! Originally Posted by Gemma34

A few years back, as a part of my job, I toured a recently-completed assisted living facility. When I got home that night, I told my wife how impressed I was with the place, and told her I wouldn't mind someday, if needed, living in an AL building. She starts laughing, telling me I already lived in assisted living.... Oh...

By the way, Gemma, will you do outcalls to my nursing home?