I'm with you Conway dude. Sometimes I want one and sometimes the other. Intensity is key for me on PSE dates, pound it, slap her ass, pull her hair and hold her down to fuck. Obviously if she allows these things. Greek isn't really a requirement for me it can be fun if in the moment just start working it in there. However, I may want to let my inner pornstar out and provide a facial finish or at least CIM.
GFE dates are more relaxed, very close to making love for me. I'm not saying that some of the activities listed above won't happen but they will be less aggressive.