Guys Requesting Bareback as a "Fetish"

Danielle Reid's Avatar
It doesn't bother me, it terrifies me! This isn't an overly large community. All it will take is one provider getting with one dirty motherfucker and then all of us are placed at risk! It may sound Draconian, but the providers should out these guys, just like the provider should be outted that offers it. Get that shit outta here! Originally Posted by 1inamillion205
I don't out people. If someone wants to know then they are adult enough to contact me.
Not sure if this is the case but I have heard of guys asking for bareback and offering extra $ as a way to see if provider will do it. If she says yes then they wont book with her. Kinda like t3sting the water to see if the provider is nasty, because if she does agree then you know you dont want to mess with her. Originally Posted by chollister76
Good way to get your name on the DNS list.
Sidinman78's Avatar
Please start that list ladies. I know for me, if I've seen a review of a certain provider and then the same guy reviews another provider, I will not see her. I can't protect myself 100% but I don't have to be blind either.
frenchozarkie's Avatar
I would be more concerned with having oral sex with a provider than some bare backing. Both are an exchange of body fluids you know.
I would be more concerned with having oral sex with a provider than some bare backing. Both are an exchange of body fluids you know. Originally Posted by frenchozarkie
Oral sex is nowhere near as risky as bareback full-service!

The greatest risk during oral sex is if there is a cut or lesion in the oral area, creating an entry point for transmission. Otherwise proper mouthwash/not brushing teeth before/after as preventative measures... & stomach acid generally kills the rest.

People generally know if they have a cut in their own mouth. In those circumstances, avoiding oral until it heals is probably a good idea.

^ Information provided to me a long time ago by a long-term client, who also happened to be a nurse.
Danielle Reid's Avatar
I would be more concerned with having oral sex with a provider than some bare backing. Both are an exchange of body fluids you know. Originally Posted by frenchozarkie
No one said this isn't a 100% safe thing. But bareback is a reputation killer
I say name the dumbasses that want bareback. Then again....I'm all but thru with the hobby anyway....

Just another reason why. Kinda sad.
Danielle Reid's Avatar
I say name the dumbasses that want bareback. Then again....I'm all but thru with the hobby anyway....

Just another reason why. Kinda sad. Originally Posted by Flyboy182
You're leaving?
TechOne's Avatar
I have also been a proponent of publishing your current 10-panel STD screening test results to get verified, and every six months that you remain active, personal info redacted, of course.

I have one SB right now that feels the same way, so we make it a date and share our results every 3 months...makes for some extremely hot sex that night...
Danielle Reid's Avatar
Fuck that, I get tested every 7-14 days. Some times I wait 30 days depending on what I'm doing. I have more track marks than a junkie.
Part of the reason this site is here is for our safety. Anyone that barebacks in the hobby should be identified. Male or female.
I thinck we all agree ,,,but revealing usernanes in private rooms can't help new members that are just getting started. They don't have access to the premiumn rooms.