Why!!

As in newbie I mean first review

Let's tackle this from a different angle, OP.

Why do you clients say you read my reviews , then come in and ask for things I don't offer?

Are you saying that you only offer whatever has been in a review? What if the client doesn't put every-minor-subtle-detail? Is there no possibility that someone could ask you to do something with them you haven't specifically outlined that you'd be even remotely interested in trying? Would you rather it be assumed if not specifically outlined and performed rather than asked to see if you're into it?

Then, yall act like assholes when I turn it down.

How did you turn it down? Did you consider that maybe you were being insensitive to what they were asking when you replied, made them feel bad, etc?
Ex: If we're going at it k9, and I slip out and say it hits your poopshoot. I say "Oops, sorry! Got a little too excited... unless you're into that ?" Then you reply with "No! That's fucking nasty and can't believe you'd even think about that. Gross!" Overreaction can occur from both parties, and lead to rudeness on either end - intentional or not.

Why don't yall put what yall did wrong? Or what caused me to be distant on our date?

Are you politely talking with the client about what they're doing wrong and causing you to be distant? How do we know what we do wrong if you don't tell us? That should go without saying that you can tell us in different ways - some being better than others. Is it going unmentioned until they review you and you see what they put in their review?

Which leads me too:

And also, from my last review he said I up charged .

Where are you seeing that he said you up charged?

Haley - no one should take the word of a single bad review if the details don't match up with other reviews of you. However, it would help with research if providers could put in a rebuttal to a no review somewhere.

As for newbie etiquette, I think you're wise to stay away from newbies. They're unscreenable for all practical purposes. As far as I'm concerned it would be like a hobbyist calling someone on BP that has no listings anywhere else.

Why do you clients say you read my reviews , then come in and ask for things I don't offer? Then, yall act like assholes when I turn it down. But yall never put the asshole things yall do to make the date not as fun .. I enjoy nipple kissing and teasing, but when you BITE me to where I BLEED it's gets put on a review that I don't like it.. I'm getting fed up with these reviews from you guys not putting the full story. Why don't yall put what yall did wrong? Or what caused me to be distant on our date? And also, from my last review he said I up charged . Not true . He donated what I asked from the start nothing more nothing less . Do not lie on me just because you're a newbie Originally Posted by HaleyRedXXX

I really don't know what you're specifically talking about but you sure are throwing out a lot of "yous" and "yalls" and "you guys" If you have a problem with somebody specific why don't you address it with them instead of accusing what seems like every man on this site?

Well, to one question up there about my reviews if every single one of my reviews say cbj... Well then what do they really expect?

Not everyone does their homework so try to be a little less untight about it.

As far as being disrespected. it's not cool. But keep in mind, if he is showing himself a jerk right away (ie biting your tit) it's up to you to take care of it other wise you're setting yourself up for trouble.

Like I said...if a hobbyist disrespects you once....believe him and make sure he doesn't do it twice.

Well, to one question up there about my reviews if every single one of my reviews say cbj... Well then what do they really expect? Originally Posted by HaleyRedXXX

Thanks for the thorough reply.

Well, to one question up there about my reviews if every single one of my reviews say cbj... Well then what do they really expect? Originally Posted by HaleyRedXXX

A horrible, horrible time......j/k!!! Lol!

OUCH! That is horrible..as for the menu, if they didn't read it then they are to blame not you...and if isn't working..hand them some $$ back and say OUT now.

Seems you need a career change

Lol see what is even the point of that? Career change ? Yeah not going to happen I've been doing this a while . Thanks though

Haha this girl.. my review of you was the truth. Now making up lies like your a victim. I didn't do the thing you said i did. Bleeeding!?! haha you been watching to much twilight movies and sorry im not into blood and gore so don't get your hopes up. Just because I'm new to the site doesn't mean you can try and smear my name. Just suck it up and maybe you can become a better provider in the future

I hope people here can use common sense.. If someone had bitten your breasts hard enough to make them bleed. Do you continue on the appointment or kick the indivdual out for injurying you.

but when you BITE me to where I BLEED Originally Posted by HaleyRedXXX

How did you turn it down? Did you consider that maybe you were being insensitive to what they were asking when you replied, made them feel bad, etc? Originally Posted by FunInDFW

Not an excuse.. and if someone bit me to where I bled, he'd be holding his head wrapped up in his shirt on the way out.

If someone had bitten your breasts hard enough to make them bleed. .... kick the indivdual out for injurying you. Originally Posted by Tommybommy

that would be an understatement.

Not an excuse.. and if someone bit me to where I bled, he'd be holding his head wrapped up in his shirt on the way out. Originally Posted by Hottentot Venus

Who said anything about it being an excuse? Also, what does the latter have to do with the quote? Are we under the impression that the request had something to do with this incident? I'm not getting that correlation at all from the OP.

The convenience of not going into detail, yet complaining about how guys don't give all the details is the definition of hypocrisy. And when plainly asked, she can't be bothered to explain the situation. Heaven forbid those questions take an introspective approach to the situation to help her improve not only herself, but should unpredictable things like this happen in the future.