An opinion is on topic about--WHO and WHY you would choose a person based upon many actions/facts ,,,, characteristics are determined by those actions even IF someone hasn't met that person yet.
A new person that doesn't know the
good and bad facts could be guided by white knights that are blinded,,, we are here based on experience,,, opinions,, safety,,, educational purposes and discretion.
Free flowing discussions are blocked with ridgid barriers.