Timothe,
A better analogy for a NCNS is if you ordered a dozen pizzas delivered and then didn't answer the door when they arrived.
As you said, YOU are the customer.
As you said, YOU changed your mind.
But changing your mind without canceling the order, and then not answering the door when the delivery person arrives would indeed make you an asshole in anyone's book.
Originally Posted by HoneyRose
Umm, I apologized to her for the NCNS. We discussed it and settled that it was a misunderstanding and I would make it up to her when I knew I could make the appointment without issue. Why would I make an appointment again and not make damn sure I could make it? I am sure y'all have this happen frequently, but I genuinely felt bad about Jules due to having thought I sent her a text. I didn't, it was may bad. Evidently, I was wrong and she is still upset about it. And just to be clear, this thread is not about Jules in any form or fashion.