SO's and families

Rodeo,

Thanks, interesting thread!

DD Originally Posted by DDarkness

try sometimes man
try sometimes man Originally Posted by rodeomann22
You did a good thing RM

Hopefully another provider or two will chime in.
A lot of conflicted feelings for me. As an enthusiastic hobbiest, and one who was caught in the past, I must be as descrete as possible in what i still do. My SO and family will always be number 1, and hobbying is way down the list.

Personally, I wish my SO to become more sexually open, and possibly join me someday, in either swinging, or even in the hobby as a threesome. I seem to be poly to a degree.

Despite the pain I caused her hurt, me as well, and was a rough time, but we have had a lot of discussion about better sex, and she has opened up in some ways, and we have grown in many ways. She knows I respect the profesion when done in a mature and adult way.

One thing she really has struggled grasping, is how the escorts tells sweet little lies, and that is what I crave. For me, it was not the just sex, but stroke my ego a bit. Tell me i have a perfect cock or some other compliment. My SO is just too honest sometimes. I mean, i will tell her she looks good, even on a bad day, sometimes, i want the same.
Thank you for your honesty Jon!!


A lot of conflicted feelings for me. As an enthusiastic hobbiest, and one who was caught in the past, I must be as descrete as possible in what i still do. My SO and family will always be number 1, and hobbying is way down the list.

Personally, I wish my SO to become more sexually open, and possibly join me someday, in either swinging, or even in the hobby as a threesome. I seem to be poly to a degree.

Despite the pain I caused her hurt, me as well, and was a rough time, but we have had a lot of discussion about better sex, and she has opened up in some ways, and we have grown in many ways. She knows I respect the profesion when done in a mature and adult way.

One thing she really has struggled grasping, is how the escorts tells sweet little lies, and that is what I crave. For me, it was not the just sex, but stroke my ego a bit. Tell me i have a perfect cock or some other compliment. My SO is just too honest sometimes. I mean, i will tell her she looks good, even on a bad day, sometimes, i want the same. Originally Posted by jondalart
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What a cool position you and TM are in!
And that's pretty awesome also that you and your mom were able to share that info. I'm guessing most mothers would not be that cool. Originally Posted by blthzr666
Sir and I do share quite a different relationship dynamic. As for my mom... I just wanted to scare her away like she did to me as a child. So far, not working lol!
Sir and I do share quite a different relationship dynamic. As for my mom... I just wanted to scare her away like she did to me as a child. So far, not working lol! Originally Posted by TheBisexualPhilogynist
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No offense but why pose the question and not offer your own answer? Are you searching for strange or not getting enough at home or just whatever? It's like a threAd except you're not a provider
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  • 06-26-2015, 08:47 PM
My Dad knows that I've hobbied, just not the whole story (He thinks I've only seen 1 provider). Still, it's an awkward subject that's not brought up a whole lot.
My Dad knows that I've hobbied, just not the whole story (He thinks I've only seen 1 provider). Still, it's an awkward subject that's not brought up a whole lot. Originally Posted by MC
How did he find out????
Did you ask him for a ride???
Did she have big tits???
Did you tell him that you have "retired"????

fuckin MC.....
Rodeo,

Thanks, interesting thread!

DD Originally Posted by DDarkness
DD.... at the risk of violating the medical speculation guideline....
Did you hit your head on something???
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  • 06-26-2015, 09:31 PM
How did he find out????
Did you ask him for a ride???
Did she have big tits???
Did you tell him that you have "retired"????

fuckin MC..... Originally Posted by Paulwantsya
1. One of his friends saw me hanging out with a provider at a beach. Guess I should've followed the mantra "fuck and leave."

2. No but here's a funny story. Before I had my car, I would sometimes walk 2 or even 3 hours to an appointment. During one of these walks, my Dad happened to drive by, on his way to work, and asked where I was headed. I fibbed and said a bookstore, that happened to be near said provider's incall. Sure enough, my Dad dropped me off at the bookstore, and I got to spend an hour or so reading magazines before heading to my appointment.

3. She did indeed have big tits.

4. Pretty much lol.
1. One of his friends saw me hanging out with a provider at a beach. Guess I should've followed the mantra "fuck and leave."

2. No but here's a funny story. Before I had my car, I would sometimes walk 2 or even 3 hours to an appointment. During one of these walks, my Dad happened to drive by, on his way to work, and asked where I was headed. I fibbed and said a bookstore, that happened to be near said provider's incall. Sure enough, my Dad dropped me off at the bookstore, and I got to spend an hour or so reading magazines before heading to my appointment.

3. She did indeed have big tits.

4. Pretty much lol. Originally Posted by MC
Like I said.... fuckin MC....
Getting back to "1".... so how did your Dad's friend "know" she was a provider???
Crap -- MC -- don't answer THAT or any other questions.... fill us in the next time you can meet us for a drinck....
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  • 06-26-2015, 09:48 PM
Like I said.... fuckin MC....
Getting back to "1".... so how did your Dad's friend "know" she was a provider???
Crap -- MC -- don't answer THAT or any other questions.... fill us in the next time you can meet us for a drinck.... Originally Posted by Paulwantsya
Good question lol.
I have been doing my this for 10 years, I once had a girl I was seeing regular on the same job site as my wife. I did that as a way to see if she suspected anything. My number 1 rule is never push a reason or an excuse to get out of the house. Even if that means blowing off a date,sometimes I just go silent and the girl may text me wtf? A 100 times but I never break that rule. It would kill my wife if she found out. I need some certain activities she doesn't provide. Otherwise I would not do this. As I have gotten older I sometimes add up all the money I spent chasing the burmuda triangle and wish i didn't have a dick. Then I get around a very sexy provider and open my wallet again. My dad knows and my son caught me, I had Meagrex me in the car and was taking her to get cigs. I wish everyone a safe journey and I have to go now and yell at my penis because I have spent enough I could have bought A new rv and paid cash by now
Big Daddy- Very heart warming and profound. But I think that you meant to write: Bermuda and Margeaux. It must have been an interesting conversation with your son and your father, as you explained your latest and newest hobby, other than RVing.