And hey, that goes for both genders. I'm a booty aficionado...well, maybe not by experts standards, but I do like 'em....a lot!
Edit: Oops! My apologies for straying, but ...ahem....I was distracted. LOL Nice art.

Will you explain how you came to that conclusion, or maybe why you feel soooo very strongly, please? Is it the colors against an uncluttered background type of thing? If so, do you have a pref for a certain race of provider, or does that matter at all? Any or no answer at all is good. I can ask others in the free/real world too, just have never had the opportunity to meet those who soooo emphatically dislike it, at least no one who has voiced it as is done here about certain things. Originally Posted by MaxiMilyenI will say that my loathing (and it is a loathing) of woman with a lot tattoo's is actually something I have a hard time putting into words but since you have what seems like an honest curiosity about why i feel that way, I feel compelled to try and explain.
I will say that my loathing (and it is a loathing) of woman with a lot tattoo's is actually something I have a hard time putting into words but since you have what seems like an honest curiosity about why i feel that way, I feel compelled to try and explain.I greatly appreciate your honesty, more than you could know, actually. Have you ever had a candid convo with a lady to understand why she would have chosen to get a tattoo? Kinda like I sincerely asked you?
Generally speaking I find tattoos to be gross and disgusting....but only on woman....tatted up guy's??? I couldn't care less!....but I'm not going to bed with guy's...
Interestingly....the more attractive the woman is...the more her having tattoo's will bother me. when I see a really beautiful woman who's all tatted up its just....well...it's almost sicking to me...i actually feel bad for her and I think...she's so beautiful...why would she want to do that to herself....yuck!
There's probably a few things going on with me in this regard....for starters...I just really love woman...i think they are by and large the better half of our species......I find woman to be such beautiful and intriguing creatures and when I'm out...at the mall say...and see a really beautiful girl who's fit and healthy and she looks happy...as a man, it makes me happy to see that....
Also after my wife (who I dearly loved) died way to young, i raised two daughters by myself...watched them grow up...felt there pain when some boy hurt there feelings or things were not going there way...listened to all there thoughts and just loved them both so much....there is no doubt that my two girls have colored my perception, feelings and empathy i have for woman.
In a very real sense I feel that a beautiful woman's body is already a natural work of art, lovely to behold and a bunch of tatts just really fucks that up for me!
That being said...I don't mind a few tattoo's if they are small and unobtrusive but when they are all over a woman's back or front or arms....or especially on her breasts.....I just can't!!!!
As for my tastes in woman.....I've always had a thing for beautiful brown eyed brunettes with olive skin and Latina woman really get me going! Originally Posted by Lucky 1
yes.....I have a definite protective steak when it comes to woman....and kids.
You seem to have a protective nature of women, but came across as some one who might be....well, I don't even wanna say it now, because I see you are not, but...
Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen
yes.....I have a definite protective steak when it comes to woman....and kids.I want a grandchild....I got grandbaby envy....LOL
My younger daughter has a 2 year old little girl (yes...I'm a grandpa!)
A guy she was dating was an asshole to both her and my grand daughter...made the mistake of being that way in front of me....I made it very clear that if he mistreated either one of them i was going to beat his punk ass! He's gone now....oh well!
On the subject of tattoos.....every guy one of my girls date that are all tatted up are all worthless, uneducated, unemployed assholes....i have definitely started equating "worthless, unemployed, uneducated asshole with no future" with tatted up young men! Originally Posted by Lucky 1
Maxi....I gotta admit...you're an interesting woman to chat with...ah hon...I already told ya I felt different after you explained what ya meant. Sorry if I made it sound otherwise...sure was not my intent. We all got our reasons for feeling the way we do. Sometimes those reasons kinda shut us down a bit and we can't see what's right before our very eyes. So yes, of course I'd like folks to reconsider their prejudices and hates of anything. See thru another's eyes kinda thing, ya know?
I hope you "live long and prosper" as the Vulcan's say!
you know...i can honestly say that I think if you talked to ANY of the providers I've been with...if they remembered me....would say....yeah...that Lucky was a really great guy! I really believe they would say that and its true. Originally Posted by Lucky 1
I like well done tattoos on women. I want to look at the tattoo and instantly know that the artist who did them charges as much as me (or more) per hour. The back piece on the third girl down and the side piece on the last girl would be the ones that I find the most visually appealing and I think compliment their look.I think you hit the nail on the head by using the word “trendy”. I feel that any tattoo is very trendy. In the last few years they have become very popular. My guess that with all things popular, they will, in time, lose their popularity. What then? People with tattoos have “dated” their bodies just as kitchens are “dated” by the cabinet tops. Kitchens can be remodeled but can your skin be remodeled.
I might be a snob but I hate "trendy" tats that are dated or will soon be. Examples would be paw prints or cherries on the top of boobs, celtic or tribal tramp stamps, and bows on the back of thighs. Originally Posted by SA Angel
Darn. Mind if I ask what about them is? I don't get it. How does it distract, if you can explain it. Some things are hard to explain, and this, I got down pat! For sure! LOL It's not distracting for me in the least, so I can not relate why it would be to others, ya know? Other than some things I do know. I'd like to add to my knowledge base and It's THE ONLY reason I ask. An intelligent perspective, which I know you have, would be a great base for me to start to understand some things, I apparently have not much of a clue about. You can PM me, if ya like. I am truly curious to know. If not no worries, many won't explain when I ask sincere questions. I assume they believe it's meant as a challenge or something.Hi, Max! Sorry I took a while in explaining myself -- didn't get online last evening.I don't think you would, but I want my intention to be very clear. I am trying to learn some things. Always.
Thanks! Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen
Hi, Max! Sorry I took a while in explaining myself -- didn't get online last evening.Hold 'em up! I stopped at back rub. You give back rubs? Wow! I got a pain in my neck...you good at those too? ( hands in prayer mode: "Please say yes, Please say yes!") LOL I think I wanna marry you! Ok...gonna read the rest of your post now...
Not all tattoos are a problem for me. My in-state regular lady has one on her back. Since most of our activities are face-to-face, I don't usually see it -- maybe while I'm giving her a back rub. As is often the case, her tattoo has significance in terms of her life events, and is none of my business. And, of course, I like her so much that she could go out and acquire a bunch more ink without it "putting me off my feed."
The OP led off with a picture of an attractive woman with a giant pirate death's head emblazoned across her upper chest. I can just imagine how that would be: you're having intercourse with her in missionary, and you (of course) look down to admire her very excellent bosom, and there's old Pirate Death Skull grinning up at you, with bad teeth, no less ... I mean, the question was, "Is this distracting?" Decidedly yes; also, gross, dreadful, and so terribly unnecessary.
That's why I answered as I did. Now, I've seen your showcase photos, and delightful they are. I know you have a nice design on your lower back. In terms of going through the process, well, better you than me; and, if I ever got a chance to visit with you, your tattoo wouldn't slow me down a bit. It's those large-area, bold, vivid ones featuring unpleasant subject matter that I'd always avoid. Originally Posted by James1588
Hold 'em up! I stopped at back rub. You give back rubs? Wow! I got a pain in my neck...you good at those too? ( hands in prayer mode: "Please say yes, Please say yes!") LOL I think I wanna marry you! Ok...gonna read the rest of your post now...Yes, ma'am, I find that giving a back rub is a pleasant way to converse while establishing skin-to-skin contact that's not (yet) unequivocally sexual. Gives you a chance to talk while, at the same time, stage 1 preliminary foreplay is getting started. And, yes again, the neck is where I start. You'd need to put your hair up, because you don't want lotion in it, and the lotion is important in avoiding skin irritation, as I'm sure you know much better than I. With sufficient feedback, I'm not terrible at it, which just means that I can follow directions if they're sufficiently simple and direct. Subtlety is usually lost on us Y-chromosome types, as again I'm sure you know much better than I do.
Ok: Thanks for explaining for me, hon. I can understand that. I'd not put a skull on my chest, and not sure why a lady would, but am positive she had a good reason for it. Was just curious. Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen