I agree with Babee and Hannah....the forms are necessary. They seem to be the only way we can get the VERY necessary info we need in order to screen you. I like email contact just fine, but the form really covers it all in one swoop. I get emails too that say "I'd like to see you tonite at 6. I saw ABC lady in 2009. She will remember me." Um, no. She likely will not. Most people who have P411 don't seem to include the number when they send a request. If you did, life would be easier b/c I could contact your oks through the same site to get refs! Genius, eh? Not really. You pay for the site! Why not use it?
Imagine you get a text from a number you don't know saying "hey, are you available tonight?" You'd think...."For what? When?" etc. PMs and emails are just fine with me, as long as they include enough info for me to gauge whether you're worth screening or just playing games. A text rarely includes enough info to get a response unless we've already met.
Originally Posted by Nina Rae
You know you are just the hottest thang right?
Too too true. Even WITH one field per answer, it's rare that I'm not emailing back "Thanks for your interest, but.....". Since email is my preference ..it's important to get all the info asap.
Espeically with email.
This happens a lot:
Notification from bluesbabee rcvd Monday 12pm (i get at 12:30/1pm read it at 3pm)
Appt request time 12pm Tues (24 hours-now 21)
so&so here's her number
so&so at escorts.com
"Sorry, I don't call for refs. I need their websites" 20.5 to go
"They are both on e.com" 19 to go
"Neither own the advertising site called e.com. I need their sites." say 17 to go in other words 7 hours 3/4 emails and I STILL do not have ref info and it's 7pm - 80% chance he can't email for the evening.
If he can email it will be: "They both know me." Say 8pm/16 hours to go.
here is why I require email.
They may know you but I don't know them. Or you. (Believe it or not I don't know or know of every escort in the US)
Unless I have met a lady face to face, I don't give or receive refs over the phone. I have no idea who I'm calling, no idea who is calling me. Say...your wife calls me says she is greatbjlady and wants a ref...Don't laugh. Happened to a client of mine. (No she didn't talk to me, talked to someone else. Lost his house, etc - over a 'phone reference'.)
I don't need her phone, her email nada - I need her site. If I have her site I have everything I need. Give me the site, let me do my job.
That's all I ask for:
Name & site
Mo/yr and city you met
Was it in/out
Does she know you by the same name, email and phone you gave me?
Times two.
And that's considered 'hard screening'?
Back to our hypothetical. 8pm and no legit ref info. Now it's the first time he can email - 8am 4 hours to go...and I may finally get two sites.
Now I know, the chances of me getting 2 refs back in under 4 hours in the am are slim to none. And yep.......
It's allllll my fault.
I tell my guys make a pw protected folder in your email program. In that folder do an email that you constantly save as a draft and constantly update w/your refs. Then it's just copy/paste. It is exactly as hard - or as easy - as you make it.