Booking a hotel room as a hobbyist

A different issue for someone like me in a very small tri city area. Got the billing thing pretty much covered. But concerned about front desk wondering why someone who lives in the immediate area booking a room for one night. Or a rare chance they might even recognize me. I once arranged to pay her back for the room but she wanted cash for the room before she went inside to book. We didnt make the appointmet Originally Posted by greyghost48
As long as you are not a frequent flyer there for 1-2 hour sessions they should not get nosey.

Usually if you find a few locations near you and rotate around.


I have booked rooms for over nights for photo shoots as well as 2-3 hour sessions for "things"... no issues.

But if they start to give you static, go to a different location.. its only money they lose, not you.

Always have a plan B
This is all assuming that nobody can get your personal information from the front desk staff. Seems a bit risky.
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  • Old-T
  • 05-28-2016, 08:56 PM
This is all assuming that nobody can get your personal information from the front desk staff. Seems a bit risky. Originally Posted by ryan949
The problem is, unless you are in the deep woods camping somewhere, either your name or hers will be connected to the hotel room/apartment/house in some way. Yes, the risk is non-zero for one or the other of you. And it is not a risk that should always be the lady's to take.

I almost always meet ladies in my hotel, and with reasonably precautions and common sense I have never had any issues, at least to date.
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+1 to all of the above, and ...

Ideally, since you are paying for and booking the room, you should see if the provider might give you an adjustment on her rate; but if not, not a big deal.

However, imo a gent should never book a room in his name (RW or otherwise) and then give the room to the provider for her further use. Very risky! Originally Posted by ck1942
INDEED! I did THAT once. After doing the deed I let the provider stay overnight in the room after I left. Later on I got a charge on my cc for $125 because she stole the clock radio that had a built in I Phone charger. Big lesson learned.
INDEED! I did THAT once. After doing the deed I let the provider stay overnight in the room after I left. Later on I got a charge on my cc for $125 because she stole the clock radio that had a built in I Phone charger. Big lesson learned. Originally Posted by Gnostalgia
Why?Now you have $125.charge cc.Plus escorts hourly rate. No hotels or motels want illegal business in there.
Just give the girl the money and let her do it...someone you trust.
You are not even on the radar, and she can use "her" room after you leave.
Be ready to give her a little more info though.
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  • Old-T
  • 05-30-2016, 08:05 AM
Why would you have to give her more info? I do not follow.
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I have a regular that I see and she gets the room and I give her cash to cover. I have found ppd gift cards work too. My son got an unbelievably good fake DL from another state when he went off to college. I chastised him about it, but in the end asked where he got it. I went, got one and use it all the time. Never been questioned. The desk clerks in West Texas generally dont think twice about someone checking in for a night with a Michigan DL.
Personally, I would NEVER use a fake ID nor carry one. That can be real legal trouble.

If you are THAT worried about the hotel, etc, you probably don't do this much and maybe you need to consider what you are asking.

There are 1000's of reasons to get a room - legit. 1000's. I've never had anyone ask me ever.

They are WORKING - they want your ID, credit card, and you gone and in your room never to be heard of again.

So long as your date doesn't do illegal activities in the hallway, puke on the carpet, show up and LOOK the part - or scare other guests -

And provided you don't get a screamer at 3 am -

everything should be just fine.

That said, its a SHOULD. We always worry about COULD.

Face it - if you are cheating - let me tell you this ends one of three ways
1) you get caught
2) you die, or your pecker dies.
3) you quit doing this.

So decide what you want and live w/ the risks,

Renting a hotel room in your name is the LEAST risky thing you can do.

They WILL put your name and address in the system.

I use my business address.

I use a business credit card.

Good luck - stay safe.
I've booked rooms at a nearby hotel several times using a personal CC to accommodate providers that don't have incall. Trust me - nobody working at the hotel, from the desk clerk to the housekeeper, gives a rats ass about why you are there. As long as you pay the bill and don't destroy any property you are just another paying guest. Perhaps because I am female I don't feel the scrutiny that many guys seem to feel when checking in. But I truly believe that when paranoia sets in it starts messing with peoples heads when it is completely unnecessary.
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I see mostly UTR girls, so I pretty much always get the room. I have checked in to many many hotels in my own town, no one ever looks at me funny. I also have gone in as early as 8 am to get a room for the "night", as long as they have one clean, it is no problem. If they don't have one, just go a couple blocks down the road to the next one. IMO, checking in and getting a room is a non issue. I can see why people might be worried about a hotel bill being on a CC statement that a SO can see, and there are ways around that. But booking a room is a non-issue.
I have given cash for provider to book room. Never had an issue, but it is not my preference due to cost. However, the client has minimized his/her risk in this scenario. Meeting a new provider (or one that you have limited trust built up) at her hotel ALWAYS has risk. Especially with the adjoining door previously mentioned. There is no risk-free option, only varying amounts. The more control you have the better for your risk-whether you are the client or the provider.
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I have reserved a room online with a prepaid VISA card. Still have to show ID when checking in but no cc trail for significant other. I have also paid incentive for provider to get room.
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What about returning the room key next day? Ouch...
  • canny
  • 08-14-2016, 08:39 PM
What about returning the room key next day? Ouch... Originally Posted by pls_deepthroat_me
I just leave the key on a table in the room. They have keys for the rooms that they don't give out so they can get in and get the key. They're used to people checking out that way.