Foreplay

I think that kissing sets the tone for the manner in which the encounter will go. I love kissing but I am very picky about who I kiss. Like everyone else, I've had the bad breath kiss, the face takeover, and the bad kiss. I've also had the just chewed gum kiss(which made my entire face feel sticky) as well as the I ate and did not brush or rinse afterwards kiss. I've also had the I just smoked a cigarette kiss which is worst of all. I'm not willing to kiss every hobbyist just like I haven't been willing to kiss every person I've dated. I just think that in everything you must be careful.

My personal preference for "foreplay" is giving bjs. I love to give bjs. It provides an immense turn on! I also enjoy body worship and massages(giving and receiving). Digital play is also very nice when my partner is not too rough. (I have had some people try to give my clit a deep tissue massage which is EXTREMELY painful)

I think that kissing sets the tone for the manner in which the encounter will go. I love kissing but I am very picky about who I kiss. Like everyone else, I've had the bad breath kiss, the face takeover, and the bad kiss. I've also had the just chewed gum kiss(which made my entire face feel sticky) as well as the I ate and did not brush or rinse afterwards kiss. I've also had the I just smoked a cigarette kiss which is worst of all. I'm not willing to kiss every hobbyist just like I haven't been willing to kiss every person I've dated. I just think that in everything you must be careful.

My personal preference for "foreplay" is giving bjs. I love to give bjs. It provides an immense turn on! I also enjoy body worship and massages(giving and receiving). Digital play is also very nice when my partner is not too rough. (I have had some people try to give my clit a deep tissue massage which is EXTREMELY painful) Originally Posted by Lena Monet

Oh god, I hate tough clit rubbing. It's awful. I have a sensitive pussy so light caressing and licking will feel AMAZING.

Kiss/tongue on my ears
Putting my finger in her mouth
Breath on my neck

All instaboners

Kiss/tongue on my ears
Putting my finger in her mouth
Breath on my neck

All instaboners Originally Posted by RJinLR

My neck is one of my biggest erogenous zones, too!

Being teased gets me going. Stripper slide and passionate kissing. If you can do that you'll be my number 1 every time.

Oh god, I hate tough clit rubbing. It's awful. I have a sensitive pussy so light caressing and licking will feel AMAZING. Originally Posted by Lolahhhhh

Yes! I'm so sensitive. I guess there are some girls that can handle the rough stuff. I, however, am not one. Men don't seem to get that. Most of the time, I just move their hand away.

"Most of the time, I just move their hand away."

Letting him know you like it more gentle is a better response. When you push his hand away, he might easily get the impression that you don't want him touching you there at all. And when he gets that impression, it will be a struggle to have a good session. Men are not mind readers any more than women are. Some ladies love it aggressive, some don't. To the best of my ability, I want to deliver what the lady enjoys. Pushing my hand away tells me "don't touch me there" rather than "I like being touched there but I prefer it gentle."

"Most of the time, I just move their hand away."

Letting him know you like it more gentle is a better response. When you push his hand away, he might easily get the impression that you don't want him touching you there at all. And when he gets that impression, it will be a struggle to have a good session. Men are not mind readers any more than women are. Some ladies love it aggressive, some don't. To the best of my ability, I want to deliver what the lady enjoys. Pushing my hand away tells me "don't touch me there" rather than "I like being touched there but I prefer it gentle." Originally Posted by watchoutthegameisrigged

By moving someone's hand away, I'm intentionally sending the message that I do not want to be touched there. The thing about vaginas is once you irritate one, it's irritated. So once you rub a woman's clit which is particularly sensitive with a rough hand, you've irritated it. Every motion thereafter will feel like sandpaper. So once a man has put excessive force on mine, I no longer wish for him touch me there. Nine times out of ten, even if you tell a man that you like it gentle, he will be gentle for a few moments and then amp the pressure back up. You may be the one percent that doesn't do that.

By moving someone's hand away, I'm intentionally sending the message that I do not want to be touched there. The thing about vaginas is once you irritate one, it's irritated. So once you rub a woman's clit which is particularly sensitive with a rough hand, you've irritated it. Every motion thereafter will feel like sandpaper. So once a man has put excessive force on mine, I no longer wish for him touch me there. Nine times out of ten, even if you tell a man that you like it gentle, he will be gentle for a few moments and then amp the pressure back up. You may be the one percent that doesn't do that. Originally Posted by Lena Monet

I was about to type this. Once a guy irritates or hurts my clit I no longer want to be touched there. It doesn't take long for a man with a heavy hand to bruise me there, so saying "A little lighter please" is already too late.

It's best to start off light and soft and if the lady wants more pressure then add more. Start light and increase from there. Don't just go in like a fucking jackhammer and then try to correct yourself afterwards. The damage is already done.

Don't get me wrong, I like it rough (sometimes) but not on my clit. And for the love of god if your hands are rougher than a tree trunk then don't touch my vagina. You don't jack off with sandpaper, do you?

"Start light and increase from there."

Unless I know different from previous visits, that's what I do.

I was about to type this. Once a guy irritates or hurts my clit I no longer want to be touched there. It doesn't take long for a man with a heavy hand to bruise me there, so saying "A little lighter please" is already too late.

It's best to start off light and soft and if the lady wants more pressure then add more. Start light and increase from there. Don't just go in like a fucking jackhammer and then try to correct yourself afterwards. The damage is already done.

Don't get me wrong, I like it rough (sometimes) but not on my clit. And for the love of god if your hands are rougher than a tree trunk then don't touch my vagina. You don't jack off with sandpaper, do you? Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

Seriously just had an "eargasm". I feel like a man knows when his hands are rough. The day your hands decide to get rough and tough is the day you forfeit feeling the amazing touch of a woman's vagina on your hands. Yes it is arousing, we know. But rough hands dry me out quicker than bad sex! For days after, I am unable to have sex!

Dirty talk is the best! Serenity is great with that!

it depends

like if we're at the library and you come sit next to me, grab my hand and run it up your thigh under the table. inner or outer won't matter. sproing

if we're in the hotel room it's pretty hot to see a lovely lady admire herself in the mirror. and if she's really comfortable putting on a bit of a sex show, that's pretty cool too. start undressing herself and caressing the parts. sproing


and like most people said, kissing. straddled sitting on the couch, kissing, nibbling, running hands under various pieces of clothing. but tongue exchange is not needed, a few with some intensity is nice. sproing

i totally love giving a lady a message. the non-erotic kind (though doing it naked i guess is kinda erotic). it's soothing and exciting and warm all wrapped in one.

Waking up cause a woman you adore has your dick in her mouth cause she wants you again.

The smell, touch, and taste of a lady fresh out of the shower drives me nuts.