Why is scheduling so hard???

I have had to "shotgun" to get an appointment. I basically provided four girls with 2 references a piece. One said she verified me, but I know the reference and she never called. The others have never called either.

That sounds like pure laziness. They must be wealthy and not need any extra $$, lol.

It is a courtesy that other providers are willing to give references. This means a guy has to call and ask them. You have to tell them who will be calling to check a reference.

Hopefully providers have respect for a guy that is willing to provide reference right up front without any fuss and they also will respect the providers who are willing to provide references by contacting them.

Providers who will give reference is a courtesy. I think everyone should respect that courtesy, but I can tell you some members on here are not doing this.

I have never had to got the P411 route, but I may have to. It f'n sucks that I have seen MAJOR porn stars and was shown much more professionalism. It was also much, much easier to get verified. Originally Posted by Maverick7

Maybe it's just me, but it seems that you might think this statement (also comes accross as arrogant) gives preferential status? Who's to argue/verify if I claim that I AM a major P-star? Maybe we all can start making that claim and bypass any verification. Just saying!

Yea, I said it. Flame suit on!

hey James... Since it is a "service" for porn stars, it might qualify the girls to be "major porn stars"... Should be a pretty good reference.

Ok, I finally got a response from Analisa. I had been trying to reach her and now she claims her service was down. I had a limited time to see her because I am in and out of Dallas on business. She said her internet has been down, but it worked fine when I originally contacted her and sent my refs. I sent them and just asked for a confirmation that she got them (I had different email for her for some reason), so I checked to make sure. No response.

Now she is saying she doesn't feel comfortable seeing me because I attempted several times to follow up.

Not trying to rip Analisa, but several providers have been just as difficult or would not respond at all. Is everyone that busy??? I have heard some other girls I know complain because things have been so slow.

Not trying to rip Analisa, Originally Posted by Maverick7

And yet you did such a good job.

Ever stop to think it may just be you/your attitude/your approach? Just throwing that out there, love.

Traci,

If my approach is providing references, not expecting same day service and providing all the information that was requested... I guess I am in the wrong..

I am in business for myself, so if my phone or internet is down and I have clients that can't reach me and some really do show a lot of attitude when they don't, usually the first thing I would do is apologize for my services being down. Though, I can't control phone or internet, it's still my business and they are my clients, so I need to keep them somewhat happy.

So, Traci do you have any tips for me?

Traci, Since you entered into the conversation, if your way of communicating goes down, would you try to let your clients know that you were having issues? Eventhough internet might go down, a lot of times those emails are on our Outlook or other email service if you are having issues and if they client has provided the phone that you requested, shouldn't you be able to let them know you are having issues?

Oh Maverick........you too shall learn many things in time........

Introuble, I guess I do... Seems likes I'll be "in trouble" for telling the truth.

I had a recent girlfriend that got mad me for responding to her text... She said, "Can't you SEE I am busy???" via text back to me. Some times it isn't worth the breath to state the obvious, when obviously the person probably istn't going to listen.

Yep, it's the "Same Ole' Situation, Same Old Ball and Chain; All Around the world, girls will be girls"...

And for the record, I contacted this provider directly via PM to address the issue and see what I could do to smooth it out. If they don't reply or don't give you the chance then there isn't much you can do..

Traci,

If my approach is providing references, not expecting same day service and providing all the information that was requested... I guess I am in the wrong..

I am in business for myself, so if my phone or internet is down and I have clients that can't reach me and some really do show a lot of attitude when they don't, usually the first thing I would do is apologize for my services being down. Though, I can't control phone or internet, it's still my business and they are my clients, so I need to keep them somewhat happy.

So, Traci do you have any tips for me? Originally Posted by Maverick7

I gave you a little nugget to think about, which doesn't seem to have sunk in yet. Obviously, you are convinced that you are doing everything right, so just keep on keeping on and I'm sure you will get what you want. Besides, what could I possibly have to teach you about escorts?

I gave you a little nugget to think about, which doesn't seem to have sunk in yet. Obviously, you are convinced that you are doing everything right, so just keep on keeping on and I'm sure you will get what you want. Besides, what could I possibly have to teach you about escorts? Originally Posted by tracibrooks

Ahhh Traci..... Traci Traci Traci..... damn I like that name.


Oh... I mean LMAO!

Traci,

I guess not that much since I asked and I the only comment I see from you is your little "nugget" and not much knowledge. I asked you specific questions and you failed to answer the question... Maybe you need to drop out of the game and run for a office in Washington D.C.

Nothing needs to sink in if you follow the EXACT directions that you were given and what is asked by the provider on their Eccie page or website. So, since you have all the answers miss Traci, fill our cups with your knowledge, but you just want to be vague and make post about how superior your knowledge is without anything substantial to say; let others post that actually have real suggestions...

I try to be a nice guy, Maverick, so take this in the spirit it is intended: While I understand frustration when you don't get what you want (I don't care if you had your hand held through the entire process and it never worked out), I don't really think you're making too many good decisions in your posting style.

Traci,

I guess not that much since I asked and I the only comment I see from you is your little "nugget" and not much knowledge. I asked you specific questions and you failed to answer the question... Maybe you need to drop out of the game and run for a office in Washington D.C.

Nothing needs to sink in if you follow the EXACT directions that you were given and what is asked by the provider on their Eccie page or website. So, since you have all the answers miss Traci, fill our cups with your knowledge, but you just want to be vague and make post about how superior your knowledge is without anything substantial to say; let others post that actually have real suggestions... Originally Posted by Maverick7

Ah. Insults and sarcasm. I think we're done here. Should you decide that you sincerely want some advice and not just to hear that you are perfectly right and simply being victimized, then feel free to contact me privately and I will be happy to help you. But I will not sit here and continually respond to petulance and rudeness. Figure it out on your own. Good luck. Have a nice day.