What’s wrong with a little (or lots of) ass play?

...a smaller percentage really do like it. And, an elite few (IMHO) PREFER anal; it really gets them off! usually takes some warm up, but once they get going, greek sends them over the top.

I personally like an occasional trip to the islands, but ONLY if the lady truly enjoys it.as well. Its a taboo that I only get to explore in the hobby. One of the ways I use to determine if a lady truly enjoys greek before I meet her is if it is part of her standard menu with no upsell.

BTW, Lena, you are truly elite in my opinion. I hope we can meet sometime. Originally Posted by Woodford

Woodford, perhaps our paths will cross some day. You have me nerding out and wondering about the numbers and statistics relating to Greek fun.

...Regarding greek fun. I enjoy it from time to time...again preferably from a gal who is into it and enjoys the trip. If it is a big upsell, that tells me it is more of a toleration and not truly enjoyed. Great thread Lena ! Originally Posted by MILFEater

Thank you, MILFEater. I'm glad you enjoyed the read. Regarding an upsell with Greek, I personally prefer all-inclusive donations, though I offer Greek and other kinky or PSE experiences during longer dates. But I do respect the varying reasons why others upsell, which may not always have to do with a lack of desire. Especially since Greek requires preparation that is distinct from the regular getting ready routine.

...To me, Its all about connection, passion and enjoying your lover(s) to the fullest.


I think those who disparage others - try to use shame, embarrasment or other other ways to raise themselves by trying to make others seem less important or lower in any form or fashion just need to be ignored and the rest of us move on and enjoy this wonderful life and the variety of truly amazing people we get to play and have fun with. Originally Posted by mm-good

Passion and sexual connection and fulfillment make life what it is. The disparagers and shamers can carry on... It certainly isn't going to stop my pleasure seeking and exploration!

Nice thread Lena !

Just a novice with respect to ass play,
Maybe you can teach me a few tricks next time we meet

[QUOTE=Lena Duvall;1057889135]Woodford, perhaps our paths will cross some day. You have me nerding out and wondering about the numbers and statistics relating to Greek fun.

Would like for our paths to cross. And the thought of you nerding on this is exciting. It could make for an informative survey and thread on ladies that offer greek and really get into it. May have to study their reviews as well. Of course to nerd out well, we will need established criteria on what constitutes the varying degrees of ass play providers allow. I suggest we collaborate and work CLOSELY together on this.


Thank you, MILFEater. I'm glad you enjoyed the read. Regarding an upsell with Greek, I personally prefer all-inclusive donations, though I offer Greek and other kinky or PSE experiences during longer dates. But I do respect the varying reasons why others upsell, which may not always have to do with a lack of desire. Especially since Greek requires preparation that is distinct from the regular getting ready routine.


I always thought that if a lady enjoys greek, she would be prepared. But, thinking about it, I guess that may not always be the case, depending on frequency of clients, etc.

In my experience, women who like greek LOVE greek. Yes, sometimes they may not desire it. However, I have known women whom, when greeked, turn into altogether different animals: Their eyes roll back into their heads, they have deep guttural moans and shouts, and experience orgasms unlike vaginal / clitoral / Gspot variations. And afterwards, they always mentioned how they love to get fucked in their assholes, and how the orgasms are completely different.

Most women, when adequate, gentle time is taken to introduce them to anal, enjoy it. It is the mokes out there who ram their cocks up the womens assholes, who RUIN it ,both the women and their subsequent lovers. Respect the women's starfish as you would want others to respect yours !

And I am always amused at the gents who do not want any play done to their starfish by women. Absolutely the most amazing orgasms are attained by the proper, gentle manipulation of the prostate. Macho idiots are missing out on one of lifes greatest pleasures. Originally Posted by crashkopf

I haven't had greek for years now. Just not the same with a cover! Gentle introduction is a must! Once had a GF who loved. And she said it was great. She always said it gave her a different kind of orgasm from standard vaginal intercourse or DATY. MAN....that girl was horny.

Judging from the replies in this thread, I would say that person's in the minority. And whoever would make such a close minded statement may have there own issues to deal with concerning their own starfish. Perhaps the Drunk Uncle who twiddled with their taint as a child, you may have struck on sum repressed memory they'd wish to forget... In all seriousness, for those who haven't experienced, Greek is almost an outer body experience if it's done right for her. An over-whelming odyssey of pain & pleasure at the same time, rushing through her body, rendering her totally helpless in your hands. Watch her eyes roll back in her head as if you just injected her with a hot dose of 90% pure heroin. You could probably ask her to co-sign for a new Benz, & she would sign on the dotted line, lol! Just don't pull it out. But seriously guys, Greek to them, is what Deepthroat is to us, so u gotta respect it. Some ladies even get so turned on, they cum just from Greek alone. And whatever pushes our time together to the next level, I'm all for it...

^^^ There are a couple problem references in your post.

Thanks for your input, James. I also prefer to enjoy the company of my lovers rather than fret about comparisons and competition.

I think it's unfortunate that the concept of "elite" even comes into this demimonde. I won't quote all the dictionary definitions of "elite" here, but I will point out that they're all comparative; the concept of "elite" depends on comparison of one with another, or actually a whole group or class of "anothers." That is, it's about competition and consumerism. That's well and good when it comes to cars, or cans of soup, but it's an inappropriate way of thinking about our fellow human beings.

I think it's much better to simply enjoy and appreciate the person one is with, when one is with them, for who and how that person is. For example, my good friend Elisabeth Whispers: she's the very best Elisabeth there is, anywhere, as I'm happy to be able to say from my own experience. I haven't had the privilege of meeting Lena Duvall (yet!), but I'll bet no one else can be Lena the way Lena can. Which of the two is "elite?" Meaningless question.

As for "Greek," it isn't to my taste; but, to borrow a felicitous phrase from Lena, I'm not here to yuck anyone else's yum. Given the nature of anal intercourse, I suppose it may at times be offered as an extraordinary inducement by providers for reasons other than, or even in opposition to, their own enjoyment. But it would certainly be foolish to assume that about any particular provider. Originally Posted by James1588

I'd love to teach you a few lessons...

Nice thread Lena !

Just a novice with respect to ass play,
Maybe you can teach me a few tricks next time we meet

Originally Posted by myren1900

I for one am not a big fan of anal play on myself, but I like doing it to men. It's kind of a forbidden zone, and adds a little bit of fun to a session.
However, most of my sessions don't include it, and I have fun anyhow. So I can't say it's a preference. :-)
It's just kind of a fetish I have. Something for a rainy day.

Piper I have spent hours with Dallas Rain and my "horizons" have been expanded. Every moment has been erotic as hell. The trust to allow someone to place objects in your butt was earned slowly. My foray into anal is the next thing on my list.

MMMMMMMM my sweet hubby Tucson...you are a true treasure to play with!


ass play on men is so sexuallymind blowing powerful!

Dee you are such a delight and the forbidden things we do have been a joy in my life.

I have to say to both Tuscon and Dallas Rain... I just read you review with her Tuscon and you were not lying... What a hot review. I loved it. I only regret I was not able to make Dallas Rains' acquaintance last time she visited Big D due to my work schedule.... But I will in the future. While reading the review I could not resist stroking... What a great thread!!!!

I enjoy ass play myself. I truly enjoy a lady that loves greek. It's just something about it being forbidden. But one memorable experience was with Ms Athena. She know how to tease a man there.

You have brought up Ms Athena and I may spunk all over my key board. She is the only woman that made me cream my pants with a lap dance. Love those looong nipples.