What suggestions would you give a newbie looking for his first appointment? I'm talking about the entire process from first contact to an unexplained smile at the dinner table that evening. This is mostly for the ladies, but the gents may have their own take on this too. Potential sticky thread starts now:
Originally Posted by Pokey1965
The first thing is I would definitely not talk about sex or money in any email, text or phone call. I see alot of newbies make this mistake and most escorts will immediately end the conversation with you with any mention of this deadly duo. Their biggest fear is you could be a cop so mentioning this is a big no no as it could scare them off. Make sure you always know what an escorts donation rates are so you don't need to ask them in an email
Also, I wrote a blog post to help newbies (hobbyists not providers) out in this business so please check it out
http://stephaniaricci.com/blog/wheth...-can-help-you/
I would also read an escorts website, blogs, twitter feed, reviews and really get to know them to make sure you are connecting with the right lady. So many guys just look at the pretty pictures but if you read their blogs, reviews and other things you may find out that she is not the right lady for you. I mean what if you love greek but she is not into that? (I love greek btw lol) So by reading things you find out if you are a good match or not. Like for instance I am also a personal trainer and so I get a lot of clients who also work out and are into health and fitness like I am and so we have a lot of interesting chats about that over dinners and sometimes even work out together.
If you love to watch porn or read erotica (like I do)or are into certain hobbies and you find out that she is also into that it would make for a better connection to have things in common
Last but not least, be sure to always go with your gut feeling in picking someone and Don't let your dick do the thinking if you know what I mean lol.