Hate in the Arkansas Hobby

...Unlike Arkansas. I send out reference checks and only serenity and sweet Casey have ever replied to me. Everyone else ignores me... Originally Posted by Lolahhhhh

We all know ginger is the issue, queen ***** Originally Posted by Littleroc

Actually, I have nothing to do with it, since Lolah has never asked me for a reference.

I think you're putting words in her mouth since she just accused everyone except Serenity and Sweet Casey.

But I do appreciate the recognition.

Ginger, you're mean. That's why I never ask for references. Get off this thread if it's not about you.

Kinda Odd, how so many Arkansas controversies follow common threads...

Ginger, you're mean. That's why I never ask for references. Get off this thread if it's not about you. Originally Posted by Lolahhhhh

See there, just because we don't see eye to eye does not mean that I wouldn't give you a reference. Feel free to PM me anytime. Regardless of personal feelings, I'm always reference friendly.

You really shouldn't make blanket statements about everyone ignoring your reference requests when it's clearly not true.

I didn't hear anything mean or hateful in Gingers statement. She simply said if a reference is needed she is reference friendly. Name calling was not coming from her.

Ginger you told me that you'd never give me a reference on my fetish friendly cum loving slut thread. And peternorth, I didn't say she's being hateful now. On a normal occasional she is. And most people can agree.


Maybe I'll ask ginger for a reference. That's only if someone uses her as one. I think only two people has ever sent me her info.

I myself have gave Lolahhh a reference no problem and in return I asked her for a reference with no problem....so this Dosent apply to me. I think its played out using the ole everyone is picking on me and jealous of me excuse.. Not true...I was once new and dealt with being the new girl and it's not long before they forget about you and move on to someone newer than you...you will Never be the "NEW" thing for more than a coupe weeks. So let's all fuck and make up and stop this whiny picking on me stuff....I have never said anything rude to her or towards her. So she can't say everyone is mean to her. Let's be real here for once....

If someone sends me a reference request to a provider who is not reference friendly, i simply reply i dont accept that provider she is not a legit reference. They usually have another provider lined up.

Selena, this is not directed at you in any way, you just happen to have posted ahead of me. But it never ceases to amaze me the way some play the "poor, poor pitiful me, I'm a victim" card here when what they are complaining about is a direct product of their own piss poor choices.

Ginger you told me that you'd never give me a reference on my fetish friendly cum loving slut thread. Originally Posted by Lolahhhhh

Nope, I didn't. Can you please provide a link to what you're talking about?

... it never ceases to amaze me the way some play the "poor, poor pitiful me, I'm a victim" card here when what they are complaining about is a direct product of their own piss poor choices. Originally Posted by watchoutthegameisrigged

+1, agreed.

I didn't hear anything mean or hateful in Gingers statement. She simply said if a reference is needed she is reference friendly. Name calling was not coming from her. Originally Posted by peter north77

Thanks, Peter. And I agree... I think this is a simple case of, 'I get more attention playing a victim.'

... So let's all fuck and make up .... Originally Posted by BabyDallass

I was catching up on the thread and thinking to myself, theres always one person that always has the dumb comment 'LETS ALL FUCK AND BE NICE OR WHATEVER'. They should be chiming in any minute now. And then...bam. Dallass came through. Hahaha! I knew you wouldnt let me down big butt.

This is not the first time that I've been accused of failing to provide references... However, when called on it, the accuser usually contradicts themselves by later admitting they have never bothered to ask me for one.

Just to clarify, my perspective on references is this: Providing a reference is an integral part of the service I provide to my clients. It's really that simple. My willingness to provide references has absolutely nothing to do with the lady who is asking me for one, or my personal opinion about her.

The thread has been deleted by the mods. But I'm sure you remember. Don't play dumb Ginger. And babydallass, you gave me one reference and same for me. You've ignored me since then. I'm not playing "poor pitiful me". I'm pointing out how different Arkansas is from other forums. Most providers that I've talked to in other states have been helpful and quick to respond. They genuinely want to help. I think everyone needs to stop being botches and help eachother out. The Arkansas forum is diseased with drama and hate. A prime fucking example is the Team Lolah thread in the sandbox. Ginger, you're a fucking bully and it shines thru that thread. Making fun of my weight, that's sickening. Why did they feel the need to post hippo pictures and pictures of mike and Molly? It's disgusting to me. Bullies are scum of this world.

The thread has been deleted by the mods. But I'm sure you remember. Don't play dumb Ginger. Originally Posted by Lolahhhhh

Mods will close or lock threads, but they do not delete them.

You can't provide any proof, because you're making up stories.

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I agree 100% the providers every where else I travel to are the nicest and most helpful non drama starting non hating hoes compared to Arkansas. It's sad and pathetic how much drama is stirred up and constantly started and provoked by other providers on the Arkansas Eccie boards. I 100% kno Tht the source behind all of it is the lovely Gingerdoll.. But we all kno she knows all the rules and guidelines and tiptoes around them just enough to do some damage but not break any rules. But the best and most intriguing part of it all to me is that she is so conniving and manipulative but very smart to be able to do it in a way that makes u feel stupid or belittled or somehow inferior to her and her utmost greatness because she is number 4 most reviewed whores... It's really disgusting how it is just allowed and condoned by the moderators and managers of Eccie because don't we teach our children not to be bullies or to let anyone bully them? But Yet Thts exactly Wat she does is bully providers as well as clients. By discouraging and picking on providers trying to get them to quit or by hitting their hot buttons and getting them to act a fool and break rules and getting banned. By harassing and hounding clients non stop to write her ass reviews and post comments on her threads or even start threads about her.. She even goes as far as to have her little spawn clients Tht she will have make appointments with providers she doesn't like and then has them go start shit saying the provider was a ncns. Plus even more Shit Tht ppl don't even realize. This lovely provider ginger is one of the most mean and just no good ppl I've ever met and the funny thing is I haven't even met her yet. She will not ever stop being the way she is because Thts how she gets her validation and Wat makes her feel Better about herself is to tear others down. Then she gets clients to think she is some kind of authority or entitled on the board because she was grandmothered in since the old raspdlmnop or wtf ever it was called board Tht they had before Eccie. Because Tht was her prime/ripe year. But let's get something straight.. Ginger has no control over anybody or anything unless u allow it. She has no control over how u feel unless U allow her to be relevant enough in ur life to make u feel sometype of way. She can't make or break any whores career unless u allow her to. She can't make or break a client seeing other providers unless u allow her to. U set the bar for how ppl treat u and how the way ppl treat u affects u. I would never let ginger fuck me lol and she could never fuck with me. We just gotta keep our heads up and keep traveling and sucking and Fucking dick like we are good at. Because let's be real she just mad cause we got more dick lined up to see us then she ever will again in her life. IJS