Stop using me

Danielle Reid's Avatar
No problem. I would not use you with Donald Trump or Hillary's Dick, Originally Posted by Rockydoc
Jessika just stating two months shows how out of touch you have become, from 200 + reviews to saying you are retiring, to complaining that people call you fat to saying two months is to long for a fucking recommendation, shit, if someone doesn't see me based off my posts, pms, texts, then fuck em, you look for ways to piss people off,
No problem. I would not use you with Donald Trump or Hillary's Dick, Originally Posted by Rockydoc
So,,,, with Hillary's Dick. Would that be Bill?
I heard Hillary's is bigger than Bill's
MOCHAakaMOCHA's Avatar
It's best to tell them explicitly the time limit right after meeting with them.
I like to send a 'Thank You' email (or text) and also let them know they can use me for 9 months OR if they successfully see 2 other providers after meeting with me that they can use for a fresher reference (since many ladies generally require at least 2 refs from a new client)...whichever comes first. I started doing that a long time ago after a client hadn't seen for 1 yr+ came up out of nowhere and tried to name drop me to 5 different people.
bluffcityguy's Avatar
Honestly, this is why I prefer to leave my references to P411.

Ladies can see via my okays there that I've been in the game for quite a while. If my okays there aren't fresh enough for them... no problem; there are other fish in the sea who are willing to see me. I'm not going to stress out over it.

Cheers,

bcg
BabyDallass's Avatar
P411 is the shit though.... She was a very smart woman to come up with that!
Danielle Reid's Avatar
Honestly, this is why I prefer to leave my references to P411.

Ladies can see via my okays there that I've been in the game for quite a while. If my okays there aren't fresh enough for them... no problem; there are other fish in the sea who are willing to see me. I'm not going to stress out over it.

Cheers,

bcg Originally Posted by bluffcityguy
I just wonder why ladies on p411 contact me after I gave the guy an Okay. Why would I give an okay if he wasn't "ok"? I usually tell them "I gave him an ok and I'm not dead so...have fun I guess"
Jessika Sweetz's Avatar
I meant to say 4 months I apologize I was typing too fast...I get how some people feel and people will have something hateful to say regardless of I apologize or not...2 months is too short I agree...I get frustrated when guys say they will see me then turn around and use me as a reference but never see me again...I don't mind being reference friendly if you came back to see me and since I'm leaving I guess it doesn't matter and I don't care of people hate me because I'm fat or if I speak my mind regardless of I'll ruffle feathers because I'm not fat at all and I'm not a mean person either..do I sometimes put my foot in my mouth and what I say comes out wrong sometimes yes but I'm not just flat out hateful. I'm far from it..have a great week everyone
bladtinzu's Avatar
Jessika just stating two months shows how out of touch you have become, from 200 + reviews to saying you are retiring, to complaining that people call you fat to saying two months is to long for a fucking recommendation, shit, if someone doesn't see me based off my posts, pms, texts, then fuck em, you look for ways to piss people off, Originally Posted by Littleroc
200 reviews? Rank amature.

But I do find it hilarious how some feel there is a race to get the most reviews. Last high end chick I had a multi hour with and I spoke of this. She frowns down on guys giving reviews on her (so i didn't) but was honest. She said if she allowed it she would come across as a high volume chick. But on the flip side she has been in over 200 porn films so..