I agree with Chella that the BEST sex is that of an emotional connection and contrary to popular belief, I don't think you can buy that.
Originally Posted by London Rayne
Like some of the ladies have said...IMHO, it takes an emotional connection to have "excellent" sex when providers and hobbyist interact. Although I have had some excellent "strictly physical" sex in the past, an emotional connection would only make it better.This is exactly correct, to really connect at a level to really have a Great get together with someone you are meeting for a first time, there must be some communication where the chemistry can build from. And this is the easiest way to be moved down on my list, the unwillingness to allow me to get a feel for you beforehand, not scratched off but a comment of more communication needed, added my the name. This by itself has made my visits to be mind blowing for both parties!!!
Like London said though, it could be hard to do sometimes...
This is why I like to get to know someone and don't mind taking time out of the hour or two we have together to do that...I want both parties to enjoy themselves
The better chemistry you have before the BCD action takes place, the better time we will have...just my .02
OTOH, hopefully I've been thought more of as excellent and ok...cuz I never suck
Well, there was that ONE time...Originally Posted by DickEmDown
And DED if you are doing the same I wouldn't worry about where you ended up in the poll as you should already know!!
