I think the guy should tell people about the threats. On the other hand, if a guy gave me a bad review, I think it's kinda ballsey of him to ask me to provide a reference. I mean, he did nothing to get me more action, why should I provide a reference to help him get action??
However.....I would NEVER threaten the man or make up lies, or create any of that drama.
One more thing about references, I once had a man give me glowing reviews. But due to his behavior during the appointment, I would never give him a reference. He was abusive and drugged out. In time, other women contacted me abouthim and i told them the truth. Yes, the man gave me glowing reviews but he is abusive and on drugs so I can't in good conscience give a green light...... Originally Posted by incognito isis
This. Great answer.Really ladies?? Are you sure about that??
Although I agree with Isis. Were a gent to give me a bad review, I'd consider it mighty ballsy to then ask for a reference. :P Originally Posted by tracibrooks
The one bad review that I've written on a lady did you know I still reccomend her to anyone that ask me about her. I tell them what happened and then tell them just make sure that they know what to expect going in and they should be happy. I was actually referring her to a well known, well liked member here as I was voicing my dissapointment loudest. Don't assume that because a guy wrote an honest/bad review that he is trashing you behind your back because I can assure you that isn't always the case.....
I have yet to recieve threats of any kind and if I did I belive my reputation here preceeds me therefore I would state my side and welcome her to state her side. Then I would let the ladies decide on their own what they thought.
As far as outting goes....lol.... BRING IT!!! I am not scared of being outted. But that's just me.