Sugar Babies vs. Providers - one man's journey

Ciara, thank you for an intelligent and well written post. Originally Posted by watchoutthegameisrigged

Made me wanna fuck her

I do my best to not waste words if they have no purpose. I'm glad you found something within my thoughts.

Am looking forward to more of Ciara's posts. She is a gem of a writer! And sexy, too! Her opinions will be a welcome addition to the AR board.

Thank you very much, I am flattered. I tend to stay quiet unless my passion is sparked in a topic. This one is something I see many on and usually it's borderline between misconceptions and misinformation. The sugar life really isn't for everyone but neither is escorting. We each have our own special talents.

Ciara - I agree yours was a great post and very touching actually. It's obvious that you and your SD were very close. It was a great post.
BTW, as a side note, I perused your profile and you sound amazing. Having lived in Ireland for two years, the fact that you are Irish and Roma is particularly exotic and mysterious. I also imagine you to be very conversational, knowledgeable and witty. I'd be willing to bet a lot on that given your background and your thoughtful post. Bentonville is very fortunate to have you there!

Ciara - I agree yours was a great post and very touching actually. It's obvious that you and your SD were very close. It was a great post.
BTW, as a side note, I perused your profile and you sound amazing. Having lived in Ireland for two years, the fact that you are Irish and Roma is particularly exotic and mysterious. I also imagine you to be very conversational, knowledgeable and witty. I'd be willing to bet a lot on that given your background and your thoughtful post. Bentonville is very fortunate to have you there! Originally Posted by Hatty242

Thank you, once again I'm flattered. That kind of a relationship is rare and takes years to develop. I was very lucky to find a "Daddy" like that. He taught me stocks, bonds, how to invest, what to invest in, things that helped me learn how to secure a financial security for my future in the long run. He mentored me in so many ways and it wasn't just about the sex, it really was more about the companionship between the two of us. It's very time consuming and an emotional involvement there that isn't there in Escorting. I found it to be a good thing. It wasn't just about the money and Escorting for providers is more financially focused for providers. So everyone has their preference but I tend to stay on both sides of that coin.

So, like an idiot I spent the last 3 months on a focused quest to find a Sugar Baby. Why? Well, all the standard answers: more intimacy, lower volume, more relaxed, more personal, maybe more passionate. That was my goal. Now, my journey could be different than many others, but I will tell you about mine. Basically it has been 3 months that has completely drained me emotionally and financially. My personal opinion is that what I found was this: spoiled 20 year old brats who just want to take you shopping, serious drug addicts who just want $$ for a fix, women who just want to go to dinner and talk incessantly about nothing where you can't even get a word in edgewise, people whos photos were 20 year and 200lbs ago, and the seriously mentally ill. Now, that's my opinion and experience. Ok, ok, a couple of nice people that would be good friends in there too.
Now, on the other hand, I have had the delightful experience of spending some time with about 5 providers from ECCIE. I will say that each and every time I left happy, content, feeling good and positive, had a great (fantastic) sensual experience, and just left feeling good about life. I think of the provider experience as (in theory) being cold, but I have found just the opposite. I think that here is the deal: Yes, one can argue that the provider experience has a cold component to it: they want our money, we want their bodies. But here's the most important thing that I missed and is my lesson: when that door closes, and it's just the two of you in that room, all that BS about money and bodies is understood and it goes away, it just disappears and stays on the outside of that door. What is inside is a room with two people, both just trying to have a nice time acknowledging that we are all the same when that door closes. I have had more emotional intimacy and friendship and good open and honest communication with so called "providers" than I ever did even come close to with the sugar baby experience. When I need a friend and a companion and to spend time away from this crazy world and have a great wonderful, joy filled romp of passionate bliss I'm sticking with one of the fine and wonderful women I have had the good fortune of meeting on ECCIE. As an odd coincidence my horoscope today (which I read for entertainment only) said to take a broader view and that sometimes the things that make you happy are right in front of you. I agree. Thanks ladies - you bring joy and happiness and fun and frolic to our lives, and I for one greatly appreciate it! Peace. Originally Posted by Hatty242

AGREED 100%!!