Guys, What If You Found Out You Were Dating An Escort??

Oh I think it's possible to have a relationship out side of the hobby with and escort but it would have to be one of complete honesty and openness. I know because I have been there before. I guess I am somewhat of a voyeur but enjoyed knowing she was out on a date.. I never knew who with or never got details but it was exciting when she came home. The only time it bothered me was if I felt she was trying to hide something from me but that didn't happen very often. Sadly the relationship ended because of a death in her family and she had to move..

This is pretty much one of the main reasons I do not date in my real world. I could never trust anyone enough to reveal such information in the beginning. However, I could never be comfortable getting involved with someone (more than a couple dates) while keeping such a big part of my life secret. I can only imagine the webs one would have to weave in order to keep this life a secret from a partner. How would one explain their income, the lack of going to a "place" of employment, how to justify your regular travel schedule if you tour, etc. In my opinion, I would think that a relationship built on so many lies and secrets from the beginning would be doomed.

Seems as if it would be another "job" and even more stressful just keeping all the stories straight!!
Originally Posted by Felina

I totally agree, as I can't imagine how hard it would be to hide an entire second life from someone close to you. The stress would probably be enough to send me away with the men in the little white coats!


I loved reading everyone's responses! I feel very fortunate that since I met my significant other here, he already knows what I do, so I never had to worry about having that awkward conversation with him. From a provider's standpoint, I personally don't find it hard to maintain a relationship as long as there is good communication and I make sure he always knows he's special.

I will say that I don't blame gentlemen who couldn't date an escort. I can imagine that it could be quite stressful at times.

"I totally agree, as I can't imagine how hard it would be to hide an entire second life from someone close to you."

That is a married man's reality here.

"I totally agree, as I can't imagine how hard it would be to hide an entire second life from someone close to you."

That is a married man's reality here. Originally Posted by watchoutthegameisrigged

I never even considered it from the married man's perspective. Mind. Blown.

Hiding isn't hard if you find someone that trusts you from the beginning. I guess I'm the lucky one ��

Hiding when you have to hide is a MF. There are way more ways to get caught than the most brilliant of us here will ever think of. Hate it, but true.

I'm talking well less about LE and much more about home.