Time lapse when responding to texts

If I have things going on and I will not be able to respond within 1.5 hours I set my away message. In my away message its says to let me know if I can text back any time or not. I dont text you unless I know its ok.

Most will reply any time is fine, not after 4pm, I'll text you back, etc.

Great topic. It is such a relief to read this thread and see that there is understanding on both sides about the fact that we're all leading full and complex lives. Context does shape my communication preferences. Unless our date is that day, one can possibly expect a time lapse of a few hours or more. Not all the time as very often I do respond within a couple of hours or less.

When it comes to first contact, I do prefer a mindful email. If someone is a stranger to me and they send a text without any verification information, there's an 80% or greater chance my response time will be never.

I usually never book in advance and it's a spur of the moment type thing. If you throw an ad up saying your time availability and if I text you in that time frame, I usually give 1/2 hour to respond or I'm looking for something else. I understand you may be in appointment but sometimes people just don't get back to me so I don't wait. So I either sit there hoping they respond or move on to the next one.

It's my fault at the end of the day because I don't book in advance because my schedule varies.

If I'm determined to bang out a hook very badly I'll just spray the area with text messages attempting to illicit a response from something satisfactory as soon as possible. If I get a response later which is more interesting to me than the response I received earlier I go with the better looking hook 10 times out of 10.

It's sad that I feel forced to do this but I blame the hooks who don't respond promptly.

I'm sure the hooks will not like this answer but I have rarely gone wrong with this approach.

I will make exceptions in special cases. I've booked in advance when traveling for example.

How long is the window of opportunity for a girl to respond to a text? To maintain discretion, many do not want a girl to respond hours later. However, I don't want someone to think I'm completely ignoring them if I never get back to them. Interested in hearing from both men and women. Originally Posted by bustybabygirl

Great question

At one point in my life I had to have total discretion... But if I texted, I would give an acceptable window of call back (within the hour)to prevent detection by eyes a text should not reach. These days.. If I text, and don't get quick response I will leave another message letting you know to text me anytime so you won't feel awkward or worried to return my message later.
I hope this helps... I also hopes it helps fellow hobbiest to potentially avoid that embarrassing text while your at dinner with the wife and kids Originally Posted by afterdark1971

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Personally I try to respond within 5-10 minutes. How ever life happens and sometimes I can not. Some I will text back to with a generic response, others I will wait for them to get back back to me. As most of you know I care for a family member also so when I'm needed I may not be able to respond immediately. I do my absolute best to be on point with my TCB skills.

I cant to the 5-10 reply and do the 1.5 hour window. I don't answer my phone while with a client. Im in for an hour, the text has to wait.

Next the spray and pray method is normal to me if you are a last minute/same day booker. Its 'first come first serve'. I assume most guys would text their go to's/wanna try first then a few others just in case.

Banging out hooks is a leisurely, pleasurable pastime for me. There is no way I'm going to settle.

I aim for the type of hook I feel like nutting in or on at any given time and if I can find one I'm happy. Otherwise I'm either going to abstain or nut into a towel while watching xvideos.

Until I came to this site it never occured to me that people exist who are so bound and determined to fuck whatever ends up in front of them that they'll pay to roll around with baby elephants even existed.

I guess you get what you think you can get?