Outed by provider

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Is it ever possible to get to the point where I provider can look at her family and say, "Yes, this is what I do. I enjoy it and make good money. I understand if you don't approve."? . . . Originally Posted by cowtoy

The answer to your question is YES.... but it's a pretty unique situation. I know a couple of very high profile girls, who's entire family knows of her work... and their reputations are amongst the finest in the entire hobby!

But this situation is nothing but sleazy!!

Sorry, Lily!!

Maybe I can finally be a public advocate like I've always wanted to be....

wow first of all Lily i am so sorry . i am really am. I dont like you never have probalby never will. In all honesty i think you are down right mean to any provider who doesnt agree with you . With that said though you are an excelllant provider . No one deserves to be outed. So if you need my help you can count on it. Keep us all posted on what you find out.

No one should ever be outed by anyone......it is each individuals decision who they want to know about their private life. To ruin someone to their family is downright insain. I had that happen to me once (not a provider) and it is not pleasant to try and cover up the damage.

This is so bizarre... I have heard of revenge-seeking SO's pulling crap like this... but another provider?

Huck

wow first of all Lily i am so sorry . i am really am. I dont like you never have probalby never will. In all honesty i think you are down right mean to any provider who doesnt agree with you . With that said though you are an excelllant provider . No one deserves to be outed. So if you need my help you can count on it. Keep us all posted on what you find out. Originally Posted by mssassy

Well I think you're a nasty, dirty, stupid, low life, uneducated psycho.

Get the fuck out my thread asshole.

Lily, I'm sorry to hear that you are having to deal with all of this!! You know if you need anything you can call me. I hope that you are able to determine (with proof) who did this. People like that shouldn't be part of this community. And yes, KARMA is a bitch!!!!

Luv Ya Girlie!!!!!

lily it soundsl like you accusing me. guess what honey i am public what i have to say to you. however i would be careful of blaming those who are innocent that has a tendency to back fire on you big time. I may be an asshole but unlike you this is something even i wouldnt do. besides my computer was down on monday and tuesday. i can prove what i was doing those days. it does sound like you did piss someone off though . perhaps in the future you should be nicer to other providers. besides your description doesnt fit me. pay attention to my recent pics you are way bigger then i am nowdays.
back to the thread lily you do have my unconditional support

I'm way bigger than you? You're joking.

This is a thread about how I was outed and you've decided to post here about how you hate me and think I deserved it? You're so stupid. What's wrong with your mind? You're at least 40 years old and you still can't act like a grown up. That's a confession if I've ever heard one.

Lily, After speaking with you on the phone and everything and then seeing this thread, I think that what and who we talked about, YOU'RE RIGHT.

As far as this thread, do not argue with the victim, it's not worth it. I promise everything will be okay girl, My whole family encluding my grandmother knows what I do and they accept me and see that I have came up in the last 3 years and have been able to provide and better myself. I have been a sugar baby since 17 though, so it's never really been anything I had to hide, just expand the idea to them a little and they went with it and accept me as family still and are happy I can do for self, try talking to them about it, since you now have no other choice.

As far as the low life doing this to you,

WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND and normally bites 10 times harder!!!!!!

Normally... for someone to do this to you means THEY ARE JEALOUS of you work and can't think of any other way to hurt you more than to tell your family? lol... Thats just plain silly!!!!

Hold your head up and you can call me if you need someone to talk to. ANYTIME!



MISS. DREAMS

Hey girly! I know that stuff sucks as nobody wants their family to really know what we do-but its hard in these small communities as is my community in Oklahoma- Like you already know- You've just got to keep pretty much to yourself and don't say anything that you wouldn't want repeated- It sucks that we can't really have "friends" in this business nor can people just mind their own dang business ..If you need anything you can talk to me or if I can do anything to help just let me know- =)

it does sound like you did piss someone off though . perhaps in the future you should be nicer to other providers. Originally Posted by mssassy

Hmmm...so are you saying that this would justify someone outing someone else?


Dreams I agree with you 100%!!!!

Hmmm...so are you saying that this would justify someone outing someone else?


Dreams I agree with you 100%!!!!
Originally Posted by shelby sinful

Hmm. I got the same out of all that mess as you did, Shelby....Thanks for pointing this out!!



Doesn't take a rocket scientist for this one!

. . . . It sucks that we can't really have "friends" in this business nor can people just mind their own dang business . . . Originally Posted by bentley_banks

Bentley, thanks for chiming in supporting Lily.

Your comment about "friends" is one that emphasizes what many of us who have been involved hobbying in AR for years have said in recent months. Not much doubt that the hobby here has been infiltrated by rif raf, low life, scum sucking, addicted, pimp-loving, dirtbags. No, you don't want to be "friends" with them and neither do I.

What is a true fact is there are markets (and AR formerly was one of them) where not only providers could be friends, but providers and hobbyiest could be friends and actually socialize together and count on one another. That circle of trust has shrunk dramatically.

Anyone who is hobbying in the upper tier that you and Lily have achieved generally understand that providers are human, have a life, have problems/challenges like the rest of us and genually care about who they see. While it's certainly all about the "illusion of passion" in exchange for a few bucks, there are people (hobbyiest and providers, alike) who truely care about the people they see.

It's unfortunate we've been infiltrated by those who don't give a shit. Just my $.02.

nothing justifies this but i didnt do what she acccused me of.you know whoever outed her was wrong and the truth comes out.