I have changed my mind on this issue after a couple of years. I actually feel more comfortable and inconspicuous at hotels - at first I felt like everyone was watching me but now I realize it's not that way. If you walk in like you know exactly what you're doing, the most you'll get at the front desk is a smile or hello.
I'm much more concerned about nosy neighbors at a lady's residence. Everywhere I've lived you have that one old lady (or old couple) on the block who knows when everyone is coming and going. One of my neighbors now is a retired couple who are ALWAYS outside watching everybody come and go. So there's no chance I'd do OC to my place...can only assume providers have neighbors like this too.
Originally Posted by RJinLR
I could see how that might be an issue if a lady is running major traffic, short bng, 15 minute, 30 minute type of appointments, multiple dates a day, etc. That's definitely something that would draw unwanted attention.
Personally, I have a 2 hour incall minimum (which usually stretches into 3-ish + otc) and I see no more than one person a day at my home... it's also typically the same people visiting, regulars. A lot of days, I don't see anyone here. I do outcalls also, so it's not a huge deal. It's a balance.
Also, I'm a 44 year old single empty-nester. I think even the nosiest of neighbors would expect that I would have an occasional gentleman caller.
Having the ability to gauge a providers concern for her own situation, and her obvious exercise of appropriate caution, should be a factor to consider in residential incall situations.