Dating a provider?

the occupations of two (or more) people in a relationship are much less important than their emotional intelligence, shared values, and ability to sustain open and honest communication.

I couldn't do it, but I have my own bent view on things...I wish you luck and hope that it works for you and her.

Cuidado, amigo...cuidado!

This sounds like you haven't actually met a provider yet that would want to date you?!?

You realize that ECCIE,
P411 and other escorting platforms are not long term relationship sites, right?

Any escort will be your girlfriend. For the right price.

I was thinking of doing so soon... Originally Posted by txsun

As stated, this could go either way, and everyone who's commented so far has been spot on in their observations.
I would like to offer a couple things; unfortunately they are not from the best outcomes. First, look at Ztonk's recent posts, there obviously was a communications breakdown. Second, while I think I could be open and honest were I in that situation (assuming the lovelies would love to date me), I am way overly paranoid, and could easily overthink myself out of a great relationship, not because of what she does, but because of what I might think she's telling me or not telling me. Third, and this is my worst problem. I get emotionally attached to almost every woman I see, unless something about the session or social engagement did not click. I KNOW I CANNOT DO THIS because the feeling is not mutual. I keep thinking of Butters in South Park's episode where the kids discover Raisins. I think she's ga ga for me, but that is what she's in business for, not for a relationship with my old, fat, ancient, decrepit, moldy ass.

Don't get me wrong; I have great friends in the hobby who are girls (TT.... ). When my big head is thinking instead of my small head, I know my boundaries. But when the little head does the thinking, there have been a few I've fallen head over heel for.

Happy hobbying and hopefully establishing great relationships, guys & dolls.

Date? As in "off the clock?"

Since, obviously, all in the hobby are risk takers,

Best of luck with that!

look at Ztonk's recent post... Originally Posted by squiretuck

I guess it depends on people's ideas of what a uccessful relationship is. Lifelong partnership could be considered successful but plenty of very successful relationships end without death being the parting factor. I've had wonderful relationships that lasted 6 months and also that lasted 12 years. The fact that they ended does not make them failures or bad in my eyes.

The relationship Z described seemed to be mutually beneficial and pretty great for a lot of the time and I didn't get the impression that he thought it was unsuccessful or bad but more that he was sad about the way it ended and disappointed that she didn't communicate better. But there was still a lot that was great about it, based on his description.

YES, No problem,there is a special provider who I would date and she can fuck all she wants (and she will) as long as she fucks me better than all the other guys

Well there is a saying opinions are like assholes and everyone has one. It really doesn't matter what any of us think because at the end of the day it is your choice. Your life. Communication will be the biggest key though if you decide on this. I personally as a provider have no interest in dating while in the Hobby. I don't have the time for a committed relationship. Hell I don't have time for an open one. I'll walk away from the Hobby before I start dating again. Thats just me though.

This is why whores make for lousy relationship prospects.....

This kind of mindset.......A guy has to be a "Sugar Daddy" for a whore to leave the hobby for a real relationship?

they NEVER quit thinking about the money and how easy it was to make..... NEVER......

Anything they EVER want in the future is just a matter of turning a trick or two and can NEVER be trusted not to.


there are lots of different careers people might be in that are not conducive to a relationship with someone else...... Where real desires and emotional needs exist the immediate train of thought is NOT that someone needs to be supported to make a change.... This is the entitlement that pervades a whores thoughts..... Originally Posted by Whispers

Oh wise one...
Explain how it works out when one knocks up a young whore?
You said you did...

Oh wise one...
Explain how it works out when one knocks up a young whore?
You said you did... Originally Posted by Observing

I don't recall ever hearing this story. Are you perhaps just trying to be relevant again?

It takes a strong (emotionally) man and a perceptive caring lady...and as stated before Open communication...I think reasonable expectations of eachother is also important Originally Posted by GingerLyn Harte

The hobby warps the minds of both the guys and the gals. It would take a very special guy and a very special girl to make this work. The odds are clearly against you. But I wish you luck if you attempt it.

z

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

I don't recall ever hearing this story. Are you perhaps just trying to be relevant again?



The hobby warps the minds of both the guys and the gals. It would take a very special guy and a very special girl to make this work. The odds are clearly against you. But I wish you luck if you attempt it.

z Originally Posted by ztonk

Not gonna waste the time looking up his post(s) and bringing it forward of him bragging/yakking about it on Co-ed.
I straight up say he posted it and you "don't recall"(like AG Sessions).
Y'all are besties and he said it on here.
We can make it as "relevant" as you want.

Oh wise one...
Explain how it works out when one knocks up a young whore?
You said you did... Originally Posted by Observing

I wouldn't know. I haven't knocked up a whore that I know of. What do you think you know that others don't?

I don't recall ever hearing this story. Are you perhaps just trying to be relevant again? Originally Posted by ztonk

She is totally out of touch with the reality of most of what happens here these days. She bases all her comments on other inaccurate posts made by ignorant people.

The OP should ignore all of the naysayers and follow his heart.

I keep thinking of Butters in South Park's episode where the kids discover Raisins. I think she's ga ga for me, but that is what she's in business for, not for a relationship with my old, fat, ancient, decrepit ass. Originally Posted by squiretuck

YES! "Raisins" is my ATF episode of South Park. You have to see it if you're on this board, lol.