A negative review actually gives out great information. If I don't know there is an issue then I don't think there is one. It's a good way to improve my skills. It's all in your perspective nothing is negative if you learn and grow from it. The few negative reviews and the desire to improve myself. Lit the fire under my ass to get my dental work done and make a sobering life change. So I actually thank and apologize the guys who wrote them. Amazing what public opinions of one self can do. But if a negative review bothers me to the point of starting a 5 page thread about it. Then I should probably look at my guilt level. If I'm not guilty of shitty service. Then a bad review won't bother me. Reputation is everything in this bussiness. Originally Posted by JacquelineWhateverGreat post. If everyone took such a pragmatic approach to the hobby, I shouldn't think ros comments would need to be private. (they are, aren't they?)
Obviously based upon my handle I am black. Although I do not condone any type of racist, prejudice, sexist, or any other hatred, I do understand that it is a person's preference whether or not they see men of any race, color, creed, or religion. I do appreciate the providers who state it in their ads so that I do not wast my time nor theirs trying to contact them. Having said that, great post and I really appreciate your honesty. Originally Posted by darkchoc6As you can see from my skin tone - I am not black.....LOL (ok, ok....I couldn't resist. You left it wide open.) - but, I'm a heavy advocator (advocate?) of girls speaking up for their preferences BEFORE a client invests their time and interest in a provider. Even if it's something I personally don't do. Maybe I started having that view because I see many clients who have become so frustrated with girls dogging them after they do research, chat, emails, screening and more.
Jacqueline is employing a DANGEROUS amount of maturity, intelligence, and common sense. Originally Posted by true_whatever+1 WJ! Has alwayz had some great postz over the yearz.
I'm just bored and needing some strange. I'll be returning to my normally scheduled amuck running soon. No Clark Kent or Superman just some bad ass bbbbjs and comic relief. Originally Posted by JacquelineWhatever
WoW! nice post. Communication is tough, at times, but key.
I applaud your courage for sharing what you have learned as a provider outside of the hobby circle as well, it takes a lot of guts to help change how civvy people (especially women) feel about the hobby.
And in conclusion...you rockOriginally Posted by Marla