Sorry to bother you, but if you do the math its easy - you can work 4 x 50 = 200 hours a year to earn the same pay as someone with a college degree without the upfront cost. College costs $10,000 (which is cheap) a year times 4 or 5 years = $40,000 to $50,000 so I can afford to see you. How about covering my upfront expenses?
Originally Posted by cckid2006
Surprisingly enough, I know how to do simple math... and your math is still off. I won't venture to speak for the entire provider community, but I will speak for myself. For each hour I spend with a client, I spend at least an hour preparing for the visit, and multiple hours maintaining my website, posting ads, corresponding with clients, screening and scheduling. When you factor in all of the additional time needed to operate a business as a provider, the hourly wage does not come close to matching the donation. But all that aside...
I spent $60,000 on a college education, so I'm well aware of how much it costs. And the last time I checked, this was a business for me, and you're not a fucking charity case. I seriously doubt you and I would get along anyways, but even if we did, it's not my responsibility to "pay your upfront costs" so you can afford to pay me to spend time with you, and I have no idea how you even arrived at that statement as a parallel to the topic at hand. Any business that sees increased operating expenses will either increase the price of its products or services, or decrease expenses elsewhere to make up the difference.
At the end of the day, and as much as some of you would hate to admit it, providers are people. We're not selling fucking oranges by the side of the road here, guys. Even when we enjoy the time we spend with a particular client, this business still takes a massive toll on a woman, both physically and psychologically.
I sincerely hope your little violin-playing emoticon was directed back at yourself, and all of the other men who consistently whine about price points on the board. A provider's donation is her choice, and her choice alone. If you can't afford a particular donation, or just don't want to pay it, then don't. It's absolutely disgusting to think that so many hobbyists view providers as a "product" or a list of acronyms/services, rather than a human being with feelings. And it's even more disgusting that so many men try to play "Let's Make a Deal" with the providers here. If you don't feel a lady is worth the donation she's asking at a given time, then don't see her.
Fuck. Is it really that difficult?