My BC causes weight gain, I figured that wasn't really a severe side effect. Now, getting pregnant, that would be a lot worse. Also its nice to regulate my period. I chose BC.
IMHO I think for a lady to chose a few less pounds and allow herself, and the gentleman, to run the risk of pregnancy, is either dumb or too wrapped up in her own looks.
I fully understand the getting sick part. That's the reason why I'm on the pills, the shot made me sick to no end!
As far as asian-indian clients, I have several of them and I love them dearly! I havent had any attempt bareback with me. Now, middle class whitemen, in my case those are the ones who have 'asked' for it, but of course they were shot down, and will continue to be. But, they are the majority of my gentlemen too, so I wouldn't sterotype in any way.
What do I do when a condom breaks? Grab another, and rewrap, continue having fun....afterwards, make sure both parties wash off well. I then keep my scheduled Dr. appt for the month. No reason to be alarmed. If the dick looked sick to begin with, I never would've messed with it, wrapped or unwrapped.