what should a provider do?

Yes she is on this board and its now 5:30 and I still have not been taken care of.LOL

Pillowlips.....I defintly see how and why you are aggervated. If this was a " repeat gent" of mine and this happened I would try to work something out with you such as a discounted hr another day or something we could both agree on ......also keep in mind that yes this is a buisness but everyone has there off days and maybe seeing her today while moving and stressed wouldn't of been what your " used too" with this woman. You shouldn't off been talked to in such a manner either. I know for myself I NEVER offer hh apointments and do get aggervated when I am pressured about doing them....but you were just simply trying to spend anytime you could with her


Best advice...if its someone you really like talk DIRECTLY TO HER so no one has hard feelings .......

Silly mistakes and hurt feelings like this is wha can make us all a little upset

Good luck

Couldn't agree more from both of you! Some ladies have excellent TCB skills, and some are just deplorable. Funny how the latter ones seem to come and go very quickly..... Originally Posted by Chaz108

The basic operating principle is exactly what this post pointed out by repeating Lexxy and Lynn. Most of the time I'd readily agree.

To be a contrarian, people make mistakes. She may have hurriedly read your email, misinterpreted what she thought you were saying and because moving sucks, blasted you. People make mistakes.

In the best case, she made a mistake. If you like seeing her, let it blow over and re-approach her in an effort to clear the air.

If she hasn't regained her cool, losing that page in the black book is probably for the best.

The basic operating principle is exactly what this post pointed out by repeating Lexxy and Lynn. Most of the time I'd readily agree. Originally Posted by NormalBob

I should add though in full disclosure that a very, very sexy traveler who comes through here about 3x a year had an appointment with me, we confirmed, she later gave me the hotel, I went there and called... and called... and texted... and called...

After 20 minutes, I left blowing steam out of my ears.

She later apologized and said she would "make it up to me" with no specifics.

She's since passed this way a couple of times and I have zero interest now.

TCB is important to me.

I should add though in full disclosure that a very, very sexy traveler who comes through here about 3x a year had an appointment with me, we confirmed, she later gave me the hotel, I went there and called... and called... and texted... and called...

After 20 minutes, I left blowing steam out of my ears.

She later apologized and said she would "make it up to me" with no specifics.

She's since passed this way a couple of times and I have zero interest now. Originally Posted by NormalBob

This wasn't Kimberly was it? I'm still pissed about that one.

a very, very sexy traveler who comes through here about 3x a year Originally Posted by NormalBob

This wasn't Kimberly was it? Originally Posted by GP

Is Kimberly even old enough to where someone could say she "comes through here about 3x a year"?

I know she is in her place and working out of it already. Originally Posted by pillowlips

spying will get nowhere

Yes she is on this board and its now 5:30 and I still have not been taken care of.LOL Originally Posted by pillowlips

ditto

Awwww, just OUT HER ALREADY!!! we need a good thursday night at the fights!!

Lets form a posse!

Lets form a posse! Originally Posted by GP

saying that with that avatar is FN HILARIOUS

doove, I don't do passive aggressive.

drop it. please. Move on.

Im thinking if you where in the same room, he would..

I'm still pissed about that one. Originally Posted by GP

The name just came back to me, Christie Lamour.

What I find interesting about this thread is that we as clients are supposed to respect the provider's time. And this particular provider had no respect for the client's time. We too have other things to do. An appointment was made and accepted. If the provider had a problem with the date then it is her responsibilty to make acceptable other arrangements. Shame on her. Find a provider who is more appreciative of your time and money.

I apologized... A few times with an explaination as to why things went awry and asked if we could push the appt. down 45 min. The response was "whiney"... Sorry, I don't do well with "whiney".. Especially on an "off day". There were a few other factors that played a role in me having such a day, and I find it difficult sometimes to have to explain it all in detail. Especially during a moment when time isn't on my side. In retrospect, I do admit I could have handled the situation in a manner which was more pacifying rather than neglectful. Sorry... again. I hope this one documented blemish doesn't ruin