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Another good thing about P411 is how much simpler it makes things. No sending references, and the provider doesn't have to wait for the reference checks to get back to her. It's all right there on your profile for her to see.

I hobby once a quarter. So I must see someone before April 1st. Originally Posted by Dave Smith

I wind I were half as disciplined as you !

Once a week on the frequency for me. That is until recently. Needed to take a break.

Yeah spanky but what if it has been a while since he has seen someone ! How do we know that he didn’t go crazy ? Lol or get in trouble !

It just like if we disappear for a year an come back ! Lol

Yeah spanky but what if it has been a while since he has seen someone ! How do we know that he didn’t go crazy ? Lol or get in trouble !

It just like if we disappear for a year an come back ! Lol Originally Posted by Nicolefoxx1

I might not have been clear enough in my post - I was supporting providers having limited amounts of time for references and saying that I thought a year was too long of a time to keep a reference going. I think we're in agreement on it.


In any case, it's so much easier to just keep your okays updated on P411. That's why I'll be renewing again this year, even though I'd have plenty of references if I needed them. That reminds, I need to send you a request to update my ok lol. I try to keep them really current.

As opposed to p411 I have never encountered a provider on this site that was shall we say lacking in intelligence. With that said how can we expect them to remember us after say 6 months. A lifespan on a reference is expected and needed by the providers. With their intelligence I'm sure they have also thought through the concept of driving repeat business if you want to keep your reference you need to keep current. It's simply a good marketing tool

As opposed to p411 I have never encountered a provider on this site that was shall we say lacking in intelligence. With that said how can we expect them to remember us after say 6 months. A lifespan on a reference is expected and needed by the providers. With their intelligence I'm sure they have also thought through the concept of driving repeat business if you want to keep your reference you need to keep current. It's simply a good marketing tool Originally Posted by kenzsquatch

And I get that. I would rather the girl tell me, hey it’s time to re-up, verses, yeah I remember you but that was awhile ago so I’m not going to give you a reference. Just my opinion- everyone has one.

I'd call my hobby status "semi-retired" right now. I can't really hobby nearly as much as I want, mostly for financial reasons. My most recent P411 OK will be a year old in May, and while I have seen a few ladies since then, it hasn't been many. Right now I'm spending money to see ladies only to check off a bucket list item (say, if a Middle Eastern or Indian (Asian Indian, not Native American) provider came through Memphis I'd move heaven and earth to try to see her. Otherwise, I have a small set of favorite ladies with whom I'm also good friends, and they've never had any problem seeing me no matter how long it's been since my last visit. (It may help that they and I are active here, so they have some evidence that I haven't gone batshit insane since our last visit together...)

Now, if those Damn Inconsiderate Bastards would stop winning my PowerBall jackpots and let me take possession of my rightful riches...

Cheers,

bcg

A lot can happen in 3 years. You could've turned into a serial killer by then.

But for me, if it's been longer than a year I probably won't remember you especially if it was only ONCE in like 2-3 years and I have no record of who you are (no review, no contact info saved, no email records, etc.)

P411 is good for guys who only hobby once every few years