I know many ladies are not going to like what i'm going to say, but maybe you should manage your messages better, it cost money for storage space, which the owners have to paid for, since they most likely aren't making as much as before, it becomes more prudent for them to manage resources better and cut cost, having 10,000 message is really very very high, if you have anywhere near that many messages you aren't managing you message box at all, way better to archive your messages to your computer, drop box, wherever and delete those that are no longer needed. most companies won't let you store 10,000 emails/messages with most of them pruning messages, mostly after 90 days and then they are gone.
Also check your messages everyday, since it seems that some ladies are getting over 200 messages a day, maybe a 500 message limit would work.
Also what is the quality of the messages being received, how many are garbage, can you do something to make it that the quality and relevancy of your messages received are better.
Originally Posted by dreamvacationdates
No there is no way that we can control the PM's. We never know how short or long a message is until it's opened. If we could control them we would only accept messages that included everything we ask a gentleman to send. Most ladies can tell you that only happens in Dreamland lol. The gentlemen didn't have their pm limits limited. They are actually allowed 2,500. You would think us ladies would have a larger limit considering we are the ones posting updates. We are also the ones having to answer questions in PM's that gentlemen used to not have to ask because they were posted on our bio pages. Seems like they have things backwards if you ask me.