Don't lie about the small stuff!!

Just my opinion, but her name should be mentioned. I mean, isn't that the point of this site, Information Exchange, the good and the bad?

Y'all encourage gents to do research on a gal, but if names aren't named, then bad behavior continues and you've really not helped anyone. Originally Posted by Laura Lynn

EXACTAMUNDO!!!!

disclaimer - the one i was talking about did that to me years ago and is no longer in the business.

Stick with reputable providers with good reviews that speak to their punctuality and professionalism. Originally Posted by Exotic Yazmin DDD

EXACTAMUNDO numeros dos!!!!

Just tell them up front that since payment if for time only, any late and time you spend waiting will be deducted from the donation. Your time is just as valuable. Then deduct it and watch her go off.
Time works for both of us and is just as important.
Maybe we need to add a section in reviews for timeliness and if late how long Originally Posted by lipsandhipster

great idea!! payment is for time only!!!

tho not a field on the review form, i will start adding it to my reviews, whether they were on time or late.

... If they cannot keep a schedule and keep you reasonably updated on it, I’m done with them. Right up front. One thing I have very little patience with. Originally Posted by TexTushHog

slight correction cos it looks like you had a typo.

Post her name. Let others know as well Originally Posted by Tara Evans

This is the New style of threads in here, a lot of complaining about everything and no calling anyone out for their downfalls. Glad to see you back for the holidays $.

Maybe not the OP in particular, but a lot of guys don't post names b/c they are scared of backlash and not being seen by other providers b/c other providers do the same shit and don't want to be blasted when they do it. Lol. Also, a lot of guys are a glutton for punishment and will go right back to that same girl and try again after getting jerked around the first time. I was even guilty of this once in my early days (never again...smh). The likelihood of that happening if he puts her name out there is slim. This is a big reason why the lack of professionalism will always be around.

If some guys here grew a pair, things would run smoother, Providers would be forced to be more professional and the market would adjust for the ones that deserve it $ would get it. Just like with everything else in the RW

Okay, okay, okay. Enough of the lashes with a wet noodle. I probably still wouldn't have posted the name except I got a text from her this morning "Hey, what're you doing?" as if nothing had happened, as if I hadn't wasted an hour coming and going. The gal in question is Gurly Pearl. Shame too. I think I would have enjoyed seeing her. (I particularly noted that all the shouts to call her out did NOT come from guys. Interesting.)

Gurly Pearll
https://www.eccie.net/member.php?u=346964

luv2luv, sorry she wasted your time and no-changed her pocket/bank acct.
like i posted earlier...
in my hobby book, hooking up w/ a provider should be a low-frustration (if not frustration-free) experience. unfortunately, some providers act in this way, some more than others.
when it happens, let others know of her inconsiderate behavior so they can avoid her or be a masochist and flock to her like a fly to a spider's web.

Hey that's understandable. Maybe she was on a date but didn't want to run you off and thought that telling you she was getting lunch would work. Idk the situation stanks but I understand from both sides

Lmao ! Gosh things happen. Can't compare this simply experience to the next so far to where you black balling her... smh

Gurly Pearll
https://www.eccie.net/member.php?u=346964

luv2luv, sorry she wasted your time and no-changed her pocket/bank acct.
like i posted earlier...
in my hobby book, hooking up w/ a provider should be a low-frustration (if not frustration-free) experience. unfortunately, some providers act in this way, some more than others.
when it happens, let others know of her inconsiderate behavior so they can avoid her or be a masochist and flock to her like a fly to a spider's web. Originally Posted by pmdelites

Lmao ! Gosh things happen. Can't compare this simply experience to the next so far to where you black balling her... smh

Lmao ! Gosh things happen. Can't compare this simply experience to the next so far to where you black balling her... smh Originally Posted by Scarlettking

not exactly sure what you mean by "black balling".

yes, things happen. but, in almost 18 yrs of consulting w/ providers, rarely have i had my time wasted w/ some real legitimate excuse.

so, if a provider wastes my time w/ some b.s. story (my phone's battery died, my dog crapped on bed, my car crapped out, had to change hotels, almost there, can you wait 10 mins?, etc), then i will let other guys know about her time wasting behavior.
that way, they can either avoid her or flock to her.
at least the info is out there.

now, if you call that "black balling", so be it.
but the provider was the one who CHOSE to not be upfront w/ the guy and waste his time.

and yes, some guys do the same. hopefully, you providers let your sisters know about his antics.


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Blackballing is a rejection in a traditional form of secret ballot, where a white ball or ballot constitutes a vote in support and a black ball signifies opposition.

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To vote against, to exclude socially, or to reject someone.

Urban Dictionary: blackball
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To conspire (*) to ruin someones reputation until they become unemployable and people refuse to associate with them.
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I really don't care. I build in fluff-time when seeing a lady because well....women are women. Provider or nun they WILL be late.

However, punctuality=respect in my book. If she's on-time she's gotten closer to having a repeat multi-hour customer.

women are women. Provider or nun they WILL be late. Originally Posted by Hercules

Uh, no! Not true. You have women who are lawyers in Federal Courts. They are 9n time it they don’t survive in the job. And if they’re partners at top firms, igeyre not late for meetings with other partners. Or with filing briefs and other legal papers. Or they get fired or sued for malpractice.

Women who are pilots show up on time or get fired. Women who are surgeons show up for the first operation of the day one time. Same with nurses. There are literally hundreds of jobs where women show up on time every day or else. Anybody who WANTS to be on time, CAN be on time. 99.99+% of the time. Any thing else if just a bullshit excuse.

It’s really simple. If you provide an independent service, just about 100% of your business is referral-based. I’m a consultant. Whether I show up on time, whether I make excuses, these are indicative of the service I will provide. If you are grossly late and lie about why, what gives me any reason to believe that any other aspect of your service will be acceptable?

Uh, no! Not true. You have women who are lawyers in Federal Courts. They are 9n time it they don’t survive in the job. And if they’re partners at top firms, igeyre not late for meetings with other partners. Or with filing briefs and other legal papers. Or they get fired or sued for malpractice.

Women who are pilots show up on time or get fired. Women who are surgeons show up for the first operation of the day one time. Same with nurses. There are literally hundreds of jobs where women show up on time every day or else. Anybody who WANTS to be on time, CAN be on time. 99.99+% of the time. Any thing else if just a bullshit excuse. Originally Posted by TexTushHog

That is TOTALLY different. I know women who are never late to work, but consistently late and lackadaisical when it comes to time management with men. The problem is "providing" mixes the two (work and dealing w/ men).

Hey that's understandable. Maybe she was on a date but didn't want to run you off and thought that telling you she was getting lunch would work. Idk the situation stanks but I understand from both sides Originally Posted by Scarlettking

Lmao ! Gosh things happen. Can't compare this simply experience to the next so far to where you black balling her... smh Originally Posted by Scarlettking

Exhibit A. This is evidence of what I was saying earlier.