Ok, ok, I must ask!

Ah. Now that someone has finally provided a link, if this is what he was referring to, then that makes sense. LOL.
STILL...
Ladies, if you are UTR and would like to remain that way, please ask the mods about ECCIE's no review policy to protect your privacy.

Sens, you are referring to a very specific event which occurred, in way of response to a very hypothetical situation the original poster of this thread is discussing.

I have no problem pondering hypothetical situations which seem like a recent event. However, lets make sure ROS information stays ROS if referencing the closed thread in question.

When you're a provider and only have the comments to glean info from, sometimes it IS very confusing.
I apologize if I didn't get what the OP was referring to from lack of pertinent info that I did not possess.

FS,

I understand. I don't believe I posted any ROS material. If i made a mistake, please let me know and we can edit it. Most of my post was more focused on what SHOULD happen, not what may or may not have happened in the referenced thread. I only posted the thread in an attempt to clarify what I believe the OP meant in his opening sentence.

Well to the original poster...what the F!

You take it upon yourself to "test the waters" by posting about an UTR girl....well perhaps not if she is posting on BP.

Nevertheless, for you to take any actions regarding this girl, without first discussing the situation with her, is just plain wrong.

Not sure who, you are referring to in your OP, about not getting it...but your way off base.

Seems like there is a story here, beyond WK'ng

oh sweet jesus, the op is referring to that review by Toodles and his "utr" girl.

Also when using the term "ditz," its usually in reference to a chick, not a guy.

Again, at no point have I ever made a date FOR a girl, taken a dime for my assistance or even asked for a discount for service. That's just not my style (not to be confused with a girl that gladly offers it in thanks...which is a wonderful, if rare, gift). This is their business, their decision, their safety, their lives. But done right, everyone can win. Done improperly and things can go very badly. But outing someone without their consent is bullshit, plain and simple. Originally Posted by Sens55

Sens, you feeling a little guilty about something?

Not a bit. Should i?

@ Sens I think I need to learn a thing or three from you. Thanks for showing how it should be done.

@ Allie I hope the link provided by Sens helps you understand... but I think you leaned provider from the ditz line. The ditz in this instance is the one posting the review.

@ Omahan - First, the reviewer quite explicitly states he does not have her permission. So if he does, he is lying...see Sens' link.

Second: Not trying to start a lynch mob... in fact, before the Sens' link was added, no one knew who I was talking about (I did this on purpose although it is true with a little effort they could find out). No, really, I was wondering if the person's tactics made sense to anyone (because they didn't make sense to me especially since he quite candidly states he didn't have her permission). Sens chose the high road and demonstrated a well thought out means of "assisting."

@ MsElena Ditz is usually in reference to a chick?!?!?! How sexist of you! A man is just as capable of being a ditz, a b*tch, a ho, and/or a slut.

Seomon,

I can honestly say I've never heard a guy be referred to as a ditz. Stupid, airhead, yes...but, never ditz or ditzy.

I'm pretty sure that everyone knew who you were talking about seeing as there was only one review as of late that referred to the lady as being UTR and from what I was able to see in the thread, he came across to me as a pimp.

I will say that if a guy helps lead a lady out from being UTR, he should direct her to a known provider that he trusts so that provider can help his friend out. There's many things that a provider who has been in the business a while can offer a UTR lady that a guy who is a hobbyist can't. If he does otherwise, it comes across as a little pimpish.

[quote=Sens55;1505289]Allie, as you know, most UTR girls are not members of this board. Most are truly clueless that these types of boards even exist. No way for them to go to the mods because they don't even know we are here. Can you imagine the shock of finding out someone's posting about what you did in an Internet board you never knew existed without your consent?

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lol I found out about this site because a client told me I was being discussed.
haha

Send55. I too need to learn about finding these UTRs

Elena is right. I don't direct them to a particular provider. But i do encourage them to read around and see how the different girls portray themselves and to reach out to one(s) that will help. But we all know that some girls will be very helpful. Others view it as competition and wont help. And some will be polite but sabotage their efforts or purposely give bad advice. Some will befriend them in an effort to boost their own business by being close to the "flavor of the month". So i also advise them to be wary until they know the girl. I also warn them about guys doing the same.

So yes I advise them to listen to other providers. To listen to customers. But in the end to listen to themselves.

[QUOTE=topnotchmassage;1508521]

Allie, as you know, most UTR girls are not members of this board. Most are truly clueless that these types of boards even exist. No way for them to go to the mods because they don't even know we are here. Can you imagine the shock of finding out someone's posting about what you did in an Internet board you never knew existed without your consent?

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lol I found out about this site because a client told me I was being discussed.
haha Originally Posted by Sens55

How can they reach out if they have no idea about the boards? I think the most offensive statement to me (my opinion of course) is that they, your UTR stable of ladies that you share with only the gentlemen YOU think are ok, are
"truly clueless".

Its a damn shame, a duck is a duck no matter what color its feathers may be.

Carlie

I am not going to waste my time reading all this crap but to answer your question

F*CK NO !!!!! Is this woman not capable enough to find her how clients? And why would you want to share her info without her permission. Heck I don't want mine shared. If they wanna know they can find me they can contact me and I will verify them. I started out by word of mouth, but was always asked my permission before any information was given to anyone (example a client I know says I know John think you would like him can I give him your email)

Now if she asked for you to be her pimp then continue on.