IMPORTANT!!

. . . He is now debating on bringing yet ANOTHER provider into the BP story (yes Arklookn I know but it's already part of the story so your stuck hearing about it, sorry ;o). . . Originally Posted by ali*cat

Ali, I'm sorry you got hung up in the mess, but you understand my point. In the meantime, I'll sit and watch with popcorn and pinot grigio.

That's really not the point, my lovely Dreams. But if you must know my info was found out by him long before I knew anyways. So, by this time I knew he already had it so it wasn't going to do anymore damage.

The IMPORTANT LESSON here guys is to just avoid him. This will get worse before it gets better. But it's worth it to me by warning others who may fall for this guys games. He is now debating on bringing yet ANOTHER provider into the BP story (yes Arklookn I know but it's already part of the story so your stuck hearing about it, sorry ;o) and he put an ad up today on Honey. Obviously him because of his grammar and misspellings.

This dude obviously has some issues with ALOT of providers, that shoulda been my first clue. I didn't know all this at that time and have only recently learned of the rest of the ladies he has pulled this game with. I had met him through another provider who never had a problem with him and who's opinion I still trust greatly. Anyways guys take care. I have learned an important lesson and will continue to learn through trial and error. Originally Posted by ali*cat

Hmmm, I was wondering why you would give out info and think someone would be sending money as a (gift) without a service, even if that is what you were told, I was not aware that you already knew this gent or whatever the situation might be, but him saying he knows your names and addy is scarey enough if he would have been a new client. I apologize for assuming. I'm still a little confused; as there is always more to the story! ❤



Sorry your now having to deal with this!!!!!!!! ❤ CREEPY!


QUESTION!
Is this something like a Green Dot Date?! (and what is Green Dot? lol) gent wanted me to do this awhile back, called two diff. times... I turned him down and was a little cofused about why he wanted to give me the money up front and then meet me at a later date. ❤

I have heard from one of the parties to this deal gone bad...

Extensive information about the "transaction" has been received.

To be fair to all parties involved, I will not disclose anything further except to say there are almost always three versions of every story...

So unless you have evidence about the deal (which no one does except for the principals), then it's probably advisable to take the information discussed here, weigh it in your own mind, and keep it to yourself..

Piling on will not be tolerated.


Huck

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Just where would you swipe the credit card? Originally Posted by arklookn4lovn

here sorry I couldn't help myself lol

Oh My Gahhh, You Didn't Girl! ❤ hahahahahaha. ❤

Ok, Not Funny. ❤ ( lol )

here sorry I couldn't help myself lol
Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

I wish my butt worked like that!

here sorry I couldn't help myself lol
Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

Most convenient, and even a place to put a tip.

QUESTION!
Is this something like a Green Dot Date?! (and what is Green Dot? lol) gent wanted me to do this awhile back, called two diff. times... I turned him down and was a little cofused about why he wanted to give me the money up front and then meet me at a later date. ❤

Hi Dreams!! Yes sweetie a Green dot date is actually very secure way to deposit without anyone knowing any of your info Actually I just recieved one recently in Dallas without any problems!!!!

You have the card (bought at wal-greens/cvs/radio shack/) I don't advise wal-mart s....so then ALL the client has to do is buy the reload pack ...scratch the numbers on the back... text or email you the numbers... you load the numbers on your card and BAM there is your deposit or whatever the case May be.....so far for me no problems!!!

But was this a green dot situation?

I'm almost interested enough to be curious as to why this person would want to prepay without any appointment scheduled.

But was this a green dot situation?

I'm almost interested enough to be curious as to why this person would want to prepay without any appointment scheduled. Originally Posted by Lily Blair

Lily,

IME, the most common reason is because the provider desparately needs cash and some dude thinks he will make brownie points with the lady by offering:

1.) loan to be repaid;
2.) gift expecting nothing in return;
3.) advance for future services;
4.) all of the above.
5.) none of the above.

Unfortunately, unless there is a written agreement, there will often be misunderstanding (intentional or otherwise) regarding whether it was 1,2,3,4 or 5.

As a general comment:

In this dispute, both parties know exactly what happened. I have received extensive private info from one of the parties and have a clear picture of what went down. That private info has no place and will not be allowed on Eccie, regardless of whether it is in a public forum or PM. I have asked both parties to drop the discussion before it degrades into another shit storm that ends with infractions and forced vacations from the board.

Huck.

two thousand dollars

The moral of this story: Cash on Delivery

Closing the thread.

Huck