Panther... My only concern for you is that with readily a available DNA testing, it's entirely likely she'll figure something out one way or the other. Everyone and their brother gets DNA tested these days, it seems, I imagine it will be even more commonplace when she's old enough to be on her own.
You did a helluva job making lemonade out of a huge pile of lemons. Good job. And I hope you feel better having gotten that off your chest. Sometimes, it's good to hear the words leave your mouth or see the words written down to properly process the grief or trauma of life. Originally Posted by pulaskirascal
She will never know she was adopted unless my wife wants to come out and say something to her when she gets older. She stated before that she doesn’t wanna do that and wants to leave it alone. Other kids we have don’t even know she was adopted because they were so small when it all happened. Got away with it this long, I’m pretty sure it will work out.