Would like to find a place that offers couples massage with his and hers HE. Want to take the extremely uptight wife to see how she reacts to the experience. Originally Posted by OwjDude, your wife knows about your hobby? You must report back on how things went. But I would suggest taking her to a nice one and not something on Bellaire.
I don't think an extremely uptight wife is what you want to take to an AMP. Mine is extremely liberated, and bi-sexual, so I have the same fantasy, but mine is tempered by the fact that she doesn't enjoy massages much in general because they always use too much force and make her sore. I still frequently wonder how she would respond to a woman initiating a HE with her.
We go to swinger clubs and a strip club very close to home. Swinger clubs are an easy avenue to meet up with couples where no money changes hands for the fun (morally more acceptable to most women), but you're going to generally get an older set of women/couples to choose from there. Even without play involved, it's a fun environment that is far more relaxed than "normal" bars. Another upside is that those places are pretty expensive (~100 per couple) so the crowd is typically middle to upper class and finances in order -- less riffraff than typical clubs where millennials hang out. The downside is the occasional drama you get when someone does something that makes their spouse jealous, and date nights get awkward with one couple irritated with each other. If you decide to go into any swinging environment with her, I suggest talking beforehand to have a thorough agreement about what's acceptable and out of bounds BEFORE going. People aren't pushy there, but without discussing it first, you could wind up being in a seduction situation and not have a good plan about what your boundaries and rules are. Originally Posted by AL56