Hey Guys !What is your TOP provider complaints

I have to agree with the earlier posts. Most important of all is probably the hardest to deliver consistently and that is the illusion of passion. Communication/responsiveness is very important as well and second only to IOP on my book. Menu- make sure if you advertise GFE you know what that entails and provide it consistently. Attitude/personality is also a huge turn on. We are here to have fun and escape reality for a bit. Originally Posted by g0lfnutt

This!

My top complaint is the lack of providers in NEA. 😔

Agree with the poster who mentioned response timeliness. Everyone is busy and perhaps not able to respond to an outreach immediately. But if one can’t respond within an hour or two at the most, then it’s probably too late. Don’t hit me back six hours after I reached out asking if I’m still interested.

I would also add, the sudden no response you get. Not really sure what triggers that but often you can be communicating good with a provider and then there is just nothing. Many times that leads to NCNS. I'm fine if something comes up and you have to change or cancel, but don't leave me hanging waiting for an answer. Open communication is the best, even if it is something I don't want to hear.

Three things that will result in me never trying to make contact again are:



1. Don't leave me waiting and wondering. Both provider and client should be responsible and considerate with communication and scheduling. Appointments should be kept whenever possible. When an appointment needs to be canceled, provide as much notice as possible. Emergencies happen, but there is almost never a good reason for NCNS. At the very least, it takes only minimal effort to text "can't make it, will explain later."


2. Don't bait and switch with fake photos or fake promises of what to expect. No one likes to feel tricked or manipulated.



3. Don't make upsell pitches as the evening fun progresses, and definitely don't run a scam stating that a suggested charitable donation was only to make an appearance at the door.

Sounds like you are speaking from personal experience, Willro. Agree none of those warrants a repeat attempt.

Be on time, and let us know what's on the menu. As far as the appointment the illusion of passion.

Things that I don't like:

Clock watching

Taking calls/texts during a date

Upselling for anything outside of vanilla

Rush jobs

Shit attitude

Slow response time

Cancellations due to having other dates scheduled at the same time


Big One - Don't bring another person on our date unless it is specified that this is what our date will entail.

Legit had a date and her driver came in with her and she demanded extra for the other girl who drove her to the date. Then said the girl would wait on her phone until our date was finished. Then demanded food and drinks for the drive home.


Independent ladies only please. Drive yourself or I can pay for you to take an Uber or a Lyft.
Do not have a driver other than yourself. Especially a male driver. If I see you show up and there is a guy in the vehicle, I'm not answering the door. I will consider this as you actively cancelling our date.
Do not show up to the date with another person accompanying you.

Big One - Don't bring another person on our date unless it is specified that this is what our date will entail.

Legit had a date and her driver came in with her and she demanded extra for the other girl who drove her to the date. Then said the girl would wait on her phone until our date was finished. Then demanded food and drinks for the drive home. Originally Posted by h2s4u2

That is very odd. I’ve never heard of anyone doing that before. Wow!

Burning the clock and making the client wait past the appointment time.



Not being freshly showered. Kills the session when you are hit with a whiff of no bueno in K9.



Lack of IOP or dead fishing it during the session.

Respecting the thread, if she is my TOP. Wouldn't be a discussion.

For some it's pretty simple, respect one another. Be clean, professional, as others have said don't lie about expectations, be on time, respond in a timely manner, love the Benjamin's given. It's a hobby.

Hide your wrappers, clean your skimmers, don't press others and be discrete.

Be a woman of class. My thoughts!!

Hey everyone, I'm focusing on how to improve my business relationships and decided to start by digging my hand in the complaint jar.

What is something you see providers do that deters you from seeing them, or what is a common complaint you have with local providers or out of town ?

PLEASE DO NOT USE NAMES OR ANY IDENTIFYING INFO. This isn't a board to talk trash about providers or anybody else. I'm trying to make my business a better provider service , and sometimes you have to get down to the gritty to see where you need to make improvements. Constructive criticism is fine if done in a sweet way . I want to make sure we meet your needs with the new site , service and communication is key !! Hope everyone had a safe and productive weekend Originally Posted by Laurenspencer

Not honoring your word, lame excuse after lame excuse then crickets, if you make an agreement keep it.

Slow response, wrong menu, old pics from 10 years ago. Being disconnected and mechanical

One of the best things I've had a provider do (well, aside from skill-related things) is turn the bedside clock toward the wall for the session. Although she didn't say this, that meant I was the one who needed to be aware of the time, which was fine by me, and I didn't stay past the agreed-on hour. A little gesture that meant a lot.

What everyone else has said. In addition:

1. Gossiping about other providers and/or hobbyists during the session.
2. Contacting other providers and threatening them if they don't raise their rates (and yes this does happen).
3. Harassing me to give a provider a review. That's my choice.