Financial Slave

Whats the process from moving from talk to the relationship. Maybe it always stays talk because no real communication takes place, and no commitment by both parties. It would have to start of small and move forward. Further more how do you make a sub take action the domme is in the drivers seat. Originally Posted by buzzworm86

Even before making it a financial transaction, a lot of stuff is done by email-- and as far as the sub not doing action, things like,

"I want you to tell me about the experiences you've had with previous Dommes,"

to

"Write me a three page, single-spaced essay on what it means to you to serve a Woman"

not being fulfilled. While I am in the driver's seat, if they refuse to get in the car and go for a ride, I'm driving off without them.

Even before making it a financial transaction, a lot of stuff is done by email-- and as far as the sub not doing action, things like,

"I want you to tell me about the experiences you've had with previous Dommes,"

to

"Write me a three page, single-spaced essay on what it means to you to serve a Woman"

not being fulfilled. While I am in the driver's seat, if they refuse to get in the car and go for a ride, I'm driving off without them. Originally Posted by SugarBeth

A tough DOMME should force the sub into the trunk of the car with his arm twisted behind his back.

A tough DOMME should force the sub into the trunk of the car with his arm twisted behind his back. Originally Posted by buzzworm86

Buzz, I'm preety sure she could do that too!

Interesting reading but hard to understand as well.

Buzz, I'm preety sure she could do that too!

Interesting reading but hard to understand as well. Originally Posted by Lovin50

hard to understand is right, where is Dr.Freud when you need him?

Nope, don't have a guy like that in my closet my friend.

Several years ago, when I paid a lady to be a mentor and teach me the basics, she spoke about this subject. And she said that if I was even remotely interested in doing this, that it was one of the biggest responsibilities that I would ever have.

Because I would have to take care of this person, make sure their needs were met, etc., etc., etc., etc. In other words, what sounded kindof fun in theory, she managed (in about 15 minutes) to turn me off to the concept completely.

And I haven't really thought about it since, except as a passing fancy when I see an ad for it. Which always bothers me on some level since hearing my friend teach me about it.

I do know of some women who pursue this, though. Anyone else have any thoughts? When you look at this from just a simple standpoint, it does sound intriguing.

Elisabeth

P.S. Your avatars just keep getting better and better, Reese! Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

Hi, do you think you can remember any specifics about you training that you could share? I am interested regarding what she related to you. Any info remembered could be helpful. Thanks