wow.....if u think so....this will never stop...look at the tv everyday...so u can end it if u like but for me i will never stop thinking about 9/11..sorry Originally Posted by SexyKaylen
Here is a really good book. Maybe Kackie has read it. I would suggest we all read it. I do not think Jackie meant it the way some of you are taking it. Let's ask it like this...say you lost a child on 9/10/2001 would 9/11 be a more tragic day to remember or 9/10.
We all get over thing and heal. There is no shame in that.
http://www.nytimes.com/2006/05/07/bo...7stossell.html
Events that we anticipate will give us joy make us less happy than we think; things that fill us with dread will make us less unhappy, for less long, than we anticipate. As evidence, Gilbert cites studies showing that a large majority of people who endure major trauma (wars, car accidents, rapes) in their lives will return successfully to their pre-trauma emotional state — and that many of them will report that they ended up happier than they were before the trauma. It's as though we're equipped with a hedonic thermostat that is constantly resetting us back to our emotional baseline.