Reviewing is a waste of time and doesn't always end up helping out the reviewer

Sorry to see you are so jaded. Sounds like you might consider the providers you are selecting. Don't lump all men or women into your personal experiences.

As to reviews, the reviewer is as important, if not more so, than what is said in the review. Learning who to trust is sometimes difficult, but oh so important. Unfortunately, a lot of the most trusted guys have left or don't post reviews anymore.

I quit posting reviews years ago but I think two of those ladies are still around. As long as the guy is polite, respectful, and clean, they would not turn down anyone just on looks. Perhaps it's a younger generation thing. Most of us like younger women, but there are ladies in their 30's, 40's and even 50's that can blow your mind regardless of how you look. Originally Posted by oldbutstillgoing
We can 100% generalize based on experience. 100%. It is a generation thing. Young women in their 20s are so inundated with hot guys on social media that they come to expect all guys to be like that. They think things like "I can get that tall chiseled guy to give me money and he's hot to boot, why do I have to give it all to this ugly loser? I'm just gonna starfish it."

When you get exposed to so many good looking people for hours a day everyday, your expectations will be higher. All it takes is a single hot guy to book with her for her to start treating you like trash if you're an ugly man.
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  • jan-w
  • 11-04-2023, 12:20 PM
You forgot about that great aphrodisiac to women, which is money. If guy gots it, he can look like Quasimodo and chicks will be creaming, As that great sage, Julio Fuentes once said. "A woman wants either your money or your body. If you don't got either one, you're screwed...or won't be."
Dear Mr InNOut

You have 3 reviews. You only selected some of the hottest Studio ladies. You have way more confidence than you expressed to us. A quick synapsis reveals, with snippets of your reviews:

Connie @ BK
"she had me undress her. That was super hot."
"We did some kissing then gave me the best BBBJ ever."
"Great session. Connie was a great first studio visit. Looking forward to more!"
(At that moment, she thought you were Brad Pitt)

Momo @ KF
"I did all the work, which is fine. I still got to blow a load in a baddy. I would recommend. I know I'm ugly, but at least I enjoyed my time.."
(Sounds like a George Clooney experience to me)

Selena @ LP
"She then goes and spreads her legs and invites me in BB."
(You probably looked like Jason Momoa to her)

You've got game my man! Either you don't know that, or you're just playin' with us. LOL Originally Posted by TexomaCowboy
I got lucky. They were good at their jobs and treated me fairly. Or they haven't gotten to experience a hot handsome man yet so their standards are still that low.

Again, this is female nature in general. Not all women are like this. However the vast majority are superficial, and sex workers are women too.
Hate the game, not the player man. I review to help myself and the provider. I get premium access here, and she gets an honest review of how I felt our experience went.

This isn't a transaction with a plumber my dude. Attraction is going to play a role on both sides. It just does.

When you interact with people in the real world, are you friendly? Do you smile and treat them with politeness and courtesy? Attitude goes a long way in life man, not just in the hobby verse. Originally Posted by corona
Attitude doesn't mean shit for men. You're either ugly or handsome.

Look into Jeremy Meeks. He is a violent felon who happened to be very good looking. He then got out of prison because a billionaire's granddaughter thought he was extremely good looking. Now he's a millionaire and top model. Talk about life on easy mode.

Now imagine having such looks that you are given the best sexual experience of of your life. In the working world, its relative. A provider can have her standards raised by having a hot guy with low self esteem who's shy. Then her next client is a short, fat, old balding, broke loser. Who do you think she's gonna have mind blowing passionate sex with? And which one will get the starfish experience?

Again, this is in general, not all women are like that.
You forgot about that great aphrodisiac to women, which is money. If guy gots it, he can look like Quasimodo and chicks will be creaming, As that great sage, Julio Fuentes once said. "A woman wants either your money or your body. If you don't got either one, you're screwed...or won't be." Originally Posted by jan-w
You're missing the point.
The point is that if there are two guys paying for it, and one is 6ft, 6 pack abs, big biceps, chiseled jaw, high set cheekbones, etc and the other one was short, balding, ugly, recessed jaw, flat cheekbones, skinny fat, etc... who do you think would get the better more genuinely passionate session all other things being equal?
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  • jan-w
  • 11-04-2023, 12:39 PM
You're missing the point.
The point is that if there are two guys paying for it, and one is 6ft, 6 pack abs, big biceps, chiseled jaw, high set cheekbones, etc and the other one was short, balding, ugly, recessed jaw, flat cheekbones, skinny fat, etc... who do you think would get the better more genuinely passionate session all other things being equal? Originally Posted by InNOut

Lol, whoever had the most money. You got to shell out more so it won't be equal. You still got a lot to learn.
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I got lucky. They were good at their jobs and treated me fairly. Or they haven't gotten to experience a hot handsome man yet so their standards are still that low.

Again, this is female nature in general. Not all women are like this. However the vast majority are superficial, and sex workers are women too. Originally Posted by InNOut
You got lucky? Then you ARE playin' with us.

Men are so much more superficial then women. Just listen to us talk at a bar! Men get great cars to impress women. Men wear expensive clothing, watches, and rings to impress women. Men spend lots of money for presents for women. Fancy restaurants & clubs...all to impress a woman. We don't rely upon witty and intelligent conversation, and making a deep personal connection. We rely on superficial material things. The peacock will fan his plumes and dance to attract the peahen. The male of a species is always trying to attract the female with superficial things. That's how we are wired.
Enjoy life...be happy...good things will come to you every day, but will you see it?

Your reviewed sessions were not lucky, they were good. You were part of the reason why they were good, and you don't see it.
We can 100% generalize based on experience. 100%. It is a generation thing. Young women in their 20s are so inundated with hot guys on social media that they come to expect all guys to be like that. They think things like "I can get that tall chiseled guy to give me money and he's hot to boot, why do I have to give it all to this ugly loser? I'm just gonna starfish it."

When you get exposed to so many good looking people for hours a day everyday, your expectations will be higher. All it takes is a single hot guy to book with her for her to start treating you like trash if you're an ugly man. Originally Posted by InNOut
LOL. Your experiencers are far from everyone else's. There are many guys on here who are ugly as fuck. Yet they still manage to get laid. Either you are fishing in the wrong pond or being cheap. And you have 3 good experiences under your belt so I am guessing you are booking the wrong hookers now.
I have read the original post twice but having difficult understand why you stated it is NOT always helping + waste time. In other words, it will help in some cases therefore it is not waste of time for someone.

Of course reviews are subject to each individual where someone can agree or disagree. For example you know all google review on the restaurants, some people likes the food they are serving or they do not. And just because some people does not like the food that does not mean you will too it is all based on the individual taste and preference.

You are right 300 per hour rate is somewhere high end , people do not want to get disappointed after they pay their rate. That is why review exists to HELP people to make their decision to visit or not ( looking at menu they provide rate, general appearance and how kind of service she provides ). Also I do hate the review without those specific ROS , I saw some review I did enjoy the session without any detail services. Those review you need to skip because that is just way too generic

Although all reviews are good and positive, if you don't like face or services than that is no. There is a chance I visit the provider with 1000+ good reviews and I could be disappointed for whatever reason. It is just way it is. Than you write review reasoning why you did not like so that next comer can see make their own decision
Reviews are good to let the Clients know when a provider is flaking out.
They start messing over clients because they put the eggs in one basket'

But some people click and some don't, some providers get spooked easy or

have ATFs that control there business. if the ATF say jump the provider goes ok.

But it is the "providers business" just don't waste my time flaking out.
PROVIDER HAS BEEN MARKED AS AN EXCLUDED PROVIDER.

Oh, stop whining. Women find 80% of men physically unattractive, yet somehow a lot of them are able to get along fine with women, even if they don't make six figures.

The reason you have poor luck with women isn't because of your physical attributes, but because of this sad, woeful disposition you've adopted. You wouldn't want to spend time with such a wet blanket either.
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You're missing the point. I'm not trying to be friends with providers. I want a great session with tons of GENUINE sexual passion from the provider. If there was an ugly guy and a hot guy, both showered, both dressed well, both have money, who do you think is more likely to get the session with burning genuine sexual primal desire?

Many guys are on time. Many guys do dress well. Many guys do bring the donation. But not many guys are treated with the aforementioned burning sexual desire coming from the woman's animalistic instincts. That's the difference. Thats the point I'm trying to get across.

An ugly dude might be able to book a session. He might be fooled into thinking he got a great session. However it could be better. If he was better looking from a genetics standpoint, she would've been all over him from the door. Originally Posted by InNOut
You sir are missing the point.

Providers are role playing 95%+ of the time. They knew what the signed up for when they are providing, and that is most of the men they say are not going to be physically appealing to them, but as long as you are respectful, have good hygiene and dress/smell nice, you are going to get treated as if you are that handsome stud BCD. At least, that is what is suppose to happen anyway.

Do not be fooled into thinking the provider really likes you just because she gives you a passion-filled fantastic session or try to call her up just to shoot the shit. She is getting paid to do a service, a service that if you were not paying her, she would not give you the time of day.

You are right in that there are lots of providers who want a good looking hunk to pay them to go BCD, but if those ladies ONLY were passionate with those guys they find attractive, then they would not have much business. That is unless they enjoy seeing one and done guys. I personally have seen hundreds of providers through the years I have been in this hobby and it has taken me that long to find a handful or two that treat me right.

You have to find ladies willing to play the game they chose to be a part of. I am sure those ladies are the ones you have to book at least several days in advance for. The ones who are always available same day or last minute should tell you something about them immediately. When you see a provider, post a review. Unless she is a total Karen, then she either appreciates the advertising you gave her, she knows where to improve (at least to see you again) and regardless of what anyone else says, if you do enough reviews and others have the same experience as you, then your credibility as a reviewer goes up.
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An ugly dude might be able to book a session. He might be fooled into thinking he got a great session. However it could be better. If he was better looking from a genetics standpoint, she would've been all over him from the door. Originally Posted by InNOut
ROFLMAO. Fooled into thinking it was a great session? How exactly does a provider do that? If he thinks he had a great session, he had a great session. Could it be better, probably. The only provider who gave me sessions I could not imagine being better was Dragonfly. But if I was happy with a session then I was happy with it. Others may not have felt the same way, but that does not matter. I am all that matters when I am in a session.
Oh, stop whining. Women find 80% of men physically unattractive, yet somehow a lot of them are able to get along fine with women, even if they don't make six figures.

The reason you have poor luck with women isn't because of your physical attributes, but because of this sad, woeful disposition you've adopted. You wouldn't want to spend time with such a wet blanket either. Originally Posted by jonas1_2
Yes I would. Men are more desperate than women in general. I would definitely want to spend time with a Debbie Downer 100%
You sir are missing the point.

Providers are role playing 95%+ of the time. They knew what the signed up for when they are providing, and that is most of the men they say are not going to be physically appealing to them, but as long as you are respectful, have good hygiene and dress/smell nice, you are going to get treated as if you are that handsome stud BCD. At least, that is what is suppose to happen anyway.

Do not be fooled into thinking the provider really likes you just because she gives you a passion-filled fantastic session or try to call her up just to shoot the shit. She is getting paid to do a service, a service that if you were not paying her, she would not give you the time of day.

You are right in that there are lots of providers who want a good looking hunk to pay them to go BCD, but if those ladies ONLY were passionate with those guys they find attractive, then they would not have much business. That is unless they enjoy seeing one and done guys. I personally have seen hundreds of providers through the years I have been in this hobby and it has taken me that long to find a handful or two that treat me right.

You have to find ladies willing to play the game they chose to be a part of. I am sure those ladies are the ones you have to book at least several days in advance for. The ones who are always available same day or last minute should tell you something about them immediately. When you see a provider, post a review. Unless she is a total Karen, then she either appreciates the advertising you gave her, she knows where to improve (at least to see you again) and regardless of what anyone else says, if you do enough reviews and others have the same experience as you, then your credibility as a reviewer goes up. Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote
Here's the thing dude. So yes they are getting paid to fake the passion, but a smart monger would be able to figure that out. And once he escapes the matrix, the session will get ruined. Any session moving forward where he knows she isn't actually clicking and she isn't actually enjoying the session will be bad.

Don't you agree that if you have sex with a girl and she is feeling it, that its gonna be a much better time than if she isn't feeling it? And since it's just sex, it's the most animalistic instinct that comes out of people.