How can you make money when you have providers like this?

Folks:

I was contacted by the provider who this thread is about, and I have to say that her position on references is made pretty clear on her website. On her website, she says she does not give references. To verify clients, her website says she will use P411 or information provided by the potential client - she apparently does not ask other providers for references for potential clients.

While I encourage ladies to share information about clients through references, it is a personal decision. Since the lady in question has made her position on references clear on her website, I believe that part of the thread has run its course.

The remaining issue has to do with contact with the client. Her account of contact with the client is more innocent than is suggested in the thread, although she does not dispute that she was in contact with the client. I don't have personal information about that, so I can't give an opinion. I know from experience that communication is often complicated. That issue will remain unsettled.

What we have is two well known providers who have had a disagreement. I hope this helps to cool the passions.

JaG

Well if that is stated on her website then she must have a reason,and we have to respect her policy,but what about her contacting the hobbyist and taking the business away from Dallas? NO EXCUSE

Clinton nailed it when he said "It's The Economy, Stupid." Originally Posted by beaver lover

No it's called being greedy and shady business tactics.

Let me set the record straight. I am the client in question. My friend Julinka DID NOT do anything wrong. Dallas has jumped to conclusions. I had a chance to see Julinka the day in question but decided to try and see Dallas....that did not pan out. Julinka had give me a reference 2 years ago at my request and so I thought she would again. That proved to not be the case as she has it spelled out clearly on her site. My boo-boo. This whole thing is crazy. Julinka did nothing wrong at all. She did not try to get me to see her over Dallas. I have really never posted before but I felt I had to set the record straight.
I would highly suggest that this matter is a total misunderstanding started by MY MISTAKE. No one elses. Hope this helps....

it was gracious of you to speak up icantgetenough...as most men wont do this. for future reference, it is always wonderful if the OP is told that your first choice worked out better to benefit you. just a common courtesy so there is not mishaps like this again.

GROUP HUG EVERYBODY, LETS KISS AND MAKE*UP.
Just a misunderstanding and we all have boo boo's

icantgetenough:

Thanks for stepping up to resolve this - it was exactly what was needed. You're an honorable man!

JaG

It's all good babe........lets all just kiss & make up!

{I am sitting on the beach drinking a screwdriver feeling so damn good right now...so no worries....lol!}

Closing the thread at the OP's request and since it has been resolved.

JaG