What to put in your opening text?

THESE DAYS, I swear most girls are just interested in advertising to sell content or OF subscriptions. If they reply at all it never returns with rates or something to the end of completing an arrangement. Originally Posted by nobody_home

They like chasing pennies instead of dollars

One thing you do not want to do is tell a provider what you like in a session you pay for, most would rather have you just set up the appointment upon initial contact as you will be considered hard to please. You would be classified as a time waster if you do not set that appointment on the initial contact. Then, because you did not tell her what you like, that opens the door for her to "go with the flow" and gave you a sub-par session then tell you that not only she cannot read your mind, but also if you post a negative review, she will do what she can to get other providers not to see you by posting bogus misinformation about you everywhere and to whoever will listen.

I've had this happen before. I think sometimes they've already left the area, either because they never arrived, or their tour was cut short. Girls change their mind really frequently when things do not go as anticipated.


Other times, they may be flooded with requests, and had so much sex already, that they don't feel like working again until the next day, or the day after that. If they know they've already reached their daily capacity, they could at least say "I won't be available again until tomorrow."


It might not necessarily be anything you said, the girls could be flaky or have old ads up that are waiting to expire.


Thankfully this has basically become a moot point for me because I only see domestic girls once or twice a year. Five years ago it would have been valid, but I've since learned paying for sex in America is usually a total rip off. In most other countries, there's no need to worry about law enforcement, so girls are far less skeptical when being contacted by strangers. I did have some trouble with a few girls not responding in Portugal, but that might have been because I was sending them messages in English, assuming they had a translator app on their phone, rather than starting off in Portuguese.

I've had this happen before. I think sometimes they've already left the area, either because they never arrived, or their tour was cut short. Girls change their mind really frequently when things do not go as anticipated.


Other times, they may be flooded with requests, and had so much sex already, that they don't feel like working again until the next day, or the day after that. If they know they've already reached their daily capacity, they could at least say "I won't be available again until tomorrow."


It might not necessarily be anything you said, the girls could be flaky or have old ads up that are waiting to expire.


Thankfully this has basically become a moot point for me because I only see domestic girls once or twice a year. Five years ago it would have been valid, but I've since learned paying for sex in America is usually a total rip off. In most other countries, there's no need to worry about law enforcement, so girls are far less skeptical when being contacted by strangers. I did have some trouble with a few girls not responding in Portugal, but that might have been because I was sending them messages in English, assuming they had a translator app on their phone, rather than starting off in Portuguese. Originally Posted by Pangolier

Yes, COMMUNICATION is the key here. Some providers have it, most do not and it is very telling.

Yours is a very good intro. I am one of the few who DO NOT have an OF. It would be very time consuming. I prefer the one on one interaction.